Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
Hi everyone,
new to the site but thought it may be helpful to obtaining some support in my infertility journey. I recently found out i have a low amh, which i naively thought would be an easy issue to overcome. I have made many changes in my life in order to improve my health and improve my chances of getting pregnant but every month my blood tests come back negative. I have withdrawn from from friends who like to go out and party or socially drink as i dont want to do anything i feel could harm my fertility however it has left me feeling isolated. I feel uncomfortable talking to other about my health as i feel it is a private thing and i currently do not have any friends who struggle with fertility issues. I decided to try this as even thought i have some close friends and my husband who try their very best to support me i often feel alone as i know they truly dont know the struggle of the multiple medications, injections, procedures and dr. visits. I am aware this is a neiche feild in healthcare and a baby is never promised however i know giving up is also not an option. It can feel frustrating at times to plan your whole life around something that may never be and finding the strength to stay positive is a daily battle. If anyone has some reccomendations of what help them concieve with low amh or how to deal with the isolation it would be greatly appriciated.
Welcome to the group. Infertility can feel very lonely and isolated. It's like you are sick, but no one can see that you are sick. Personally, I find counseling helps as well as forums/groups like this one. I also find that talking to family and friends about this really helps me...unfortunately, this way of dealing is not for everyone. I'm actually very open about what my husband and I are going through and have gained so much support through talking and "educating" others on infertility. I have had some of the cliche phrases said to me ("just relax" "it will happen at the right time" "think positive"), this is when I "educate" that person on infertility and what really goes on. I also recommend finding a hobby/activity that you enjoy as well. I keep myself busy and focused on other things and find that it helps. I know that I can only do so much and I try not to worry about the future. It is scary and there are times where I will still have a break down.
Another thing that has helped my mood is acupuncture. I find it very peaceful and comforting. I know that may sound crazy, but it works for me.
So sorry you are going through this. I would never wish this upon anyone because it is painful. Will be praying for you.