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nikkinash08
nikkinash08
Ok,

I am on CD 27. For ever and ever AF started on cd27. But for the last 4 or 5 months it has been anywherer from 27-30days. I dont know if i should test or not. I am pretty sure i am not pregnant but i am hanging on to the little hope that miricles happen and i got pregnant on this forced natural cycle. I dont know what to do. I have a weekend pack with christmas parties so i dont want to start unexpectidly and be upset and have to leave so should i test so i know and can start the crying sad upset part or should I wait and cling to the little happyness i have still having a tinybit of hope?

Does any of that make any sence to you.?
CarrieDawn
CarrieDawn
I have had months where I tested a bit early because I was sure I'd get a BFN and wanted to get the crying out of me before a certain day or event. I like to have that hope for as long as possible but in this case, I would be testing now. I'm praying that you are indeed pregnant and no crying will be necessary, unless it's tears of joy!
nikkinash08
nikkinash08
Thanks Carrie,

I think i will test tomorrow morning!!!!! Tomorrow nightis my christmas party for work so if it a BFN i can drink my sorrows away.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know how hard it is not to pee on that stick.. I think I would try to wait cause i know I wouldn't be any good after a bfn. If you can hold out then do ...
skuhn
skuhn
yes I would test. if you dont it is going to be on your mind the whole time. I have done that before, I even keep pee sticks around just for that reason.
CarrieDawn
CarrieDawn
What would probably happen to me if I didn't test is, I would go to the bathroom during one of the parties, and wipe and see blood. Then I'd have to stay in the bathroom for awhile until I could keep myself together and then hope that nobody notices I'd been crying. I'd rather get the crying out of the way and some of the sadness out of the way first. Also, drinking your sorrows away would be somewhat helpful. Come on BFP!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Don't be mad at me but......... if there is any chance you could be (you could just be testing early if your cycle is 30 days long) then do you really want to drink......... Trust me i know the wanting to drink the pain away but I guess i am too worried about what ifs..............

I hope it is BFP to start with..........
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good Luck - I think I am one of those IUI/IVF'er that never buys HPT's .... I always feel that if I am going to be miserable I may ass well wait! After all our lives are always in roller coasters. But having said that, my periods are SUPER regular and I alwaysd start feeling crampy about 3 days before AF.

Anyway, good luck with the decision & let us know. Have a great time at the Christmas parties! :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know how you feel. I've done the same thing, tested just to get it over with. I probably would in your situation, too. But I'll be hoping (and praying) you are pleasantly surprised! Good luck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i jsut hope you have a BFP!!!!