Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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SweetPea19 05/28/2008

So my hcg levels keep rising, but abnormally...so the doctor suspects an abnormal pregnancy or an etopic pregnancy! Either one obviously not good...which I already was prepared for this. But to actually HEAR it again after blood results from yesterday...it's really hard. And quite frankly I'm MAD at the world right now!

I have to go in next week for a D & C and they will send it out to the lab and test it to make sure everything is there! If not then they will suspect a tubal pregnancy and have to give me medication to clear my tube! Now I just pray it's not tubal...and the D & C takes care of it, so I can get started again. If it is tubal I'd have to waite 3 months!

ANYWAY...I know I haven't been very supportive or there for you girls these last few weeks...and I'm really sorry for that! YOU ALL have been so wonderful and have helped me through so much...and i never want any of you to think I'm not there for you because of what I'm dealing with! BECAUSE we are all dealing with IF in one way or another and we are all going through so much...and I love you all...and don't care about just ME in this world...I care about YOU girls and am here for you all!

So thank you again for everything...baby dust to you all!!!

xoxoxo

deleted_user 05/28/2008

i am so sorry you have to go through this i hope you dont have an etopic so you can get started again and the next everything will be perfect you will be in my prayers

deleted_user 05/28/2008

I don't think any one expected you to be all that supportive right now in your time of need. You need time to deal with your pain and needs. But that's what we're here for; to support you just like you support everyone here. I really hope everything works out for you.

deleted_user 05/28/2008

Awww, hon, I am so sorry. Nothing we can say can make it better, but we are definitely here for you. Take care of yourself.

deleted_user 05/28/2008

Don't be crazy that's what we're all here for, when it's our time to be frustrated or sad you'll be there for us. Right now it's your turn to take the time that you need. Don't worry about us. I am really sorry about your whole situation and I wish nothing but happiness for you. Good luck and I hope everything works out to be ok. Stay positive.
oxoxo,
Lyd

deleted_user 05/28/2008

I am sorry you are going through all of this. You have a right to be angry right now. I agree with the others, when one is weak the other is strong. Right now is a sad time for you and you may need more support then other times. There are times when you are doing better and are there for those who are struggling. Take care of yourself. We all know you haven't forgotten us. You are in my prayers!

deleted_user 05/28/2008

I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. You need to take care of yourself right now. We all understand. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there.

deleted_user 05/28/2008

I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. It is not fair at all. There is no need for you to be sorry, you need to take care of yourself right now. I will be thinking of you.

deleted_user 05/28/2008

I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. For now, you have to worry about yourself, take care of yourself and your boyfriend. I hope everything works out for you. God bless you guys and take care of you.

deleted_user 05/28/2008

Did you have a u/s? If not please ask your doc to do it. My friend had a doc almost do D&C based on just bloodwork and she asked for u/s just to see that the baby is not there. It was! and his heart was beating. He got born healthy later. I'm not saying this to give you a false hope but I think you deserve to know for sure what's in there so I'd ask and insist. You can say you just need this for closure.

As for being there for us, honey, you need time for yourself right now and energy. As everyone here said we're here now for you so just give yourself all the love you can and don't worry. I sure hope this all resolves very soon.

deleted_user 05/28/2008

I'm sorry for what you're going through. Don't feel bad about not being supportive, you have alot on your plate and you have to take care of yourself. I hope it's not a tubal pregnancy. My prayers are with you.

honeyb11277 05/29/2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and I am soo sorry you have to go through all of this!

deleted_user 05/29/2008

I'm so very sorry that this is happening to you. It really just isn't fair.

I'll be praying for you.

deleted_user 05/29/2008

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I think you have every right to be mad - I know I would be. Do whatever you need to do for YOU right now, and like the other ladies said, when one is weak, the others are strong. I will say a prayer for you. Hang in there!

LoMac 05/29/2008

I'm sorry you're going through all this. But don't worry about not having been "there" for us, we get it, there are times where you might not have it in you and so leaning on us is what were here for and vice-a-versa. We know you're a strong and have been very supportive in the past and despite whats happening to you that the kind of person you are and doesn't do away. We know you care and WE CARE TOO! Hang in there!

deleted_user 05/29/2008

The girls are right, it's our turn to support you. I'm praying for you and I hope you are better soon.

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