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Hi girls,
I am having a lot of trouble at the moment. As some of you are aware, I found out the other day that my Ex has had another child. I have been so upset about this news! I keep on dreaming about it, I get in to the worse moods and just feel like getting in bed, shutting the blinds and just sleeping all day. I am so angry that this man who hurt me so much, (he dumped me ten days before our wedding) is able to have these precious little things in his life! To make it all worse, the same day that I found out about him AF showed her UGLY face I just feel so alone and so betrayed by God and life.
I just dont know how to get over it; I have tried everything, writing down all the positive things in my life v/s the negative that my life would have been with him, going out shopping, chatting to friends, taking it out at the gym etc, etc, etc,
I feel like Im at the end of my tether with no where to go
I am having a lot of trouble at the moment. As some of you are aware, I found out the other day that my Ex has had another child. I have been so upset about this news! I keep on dreaming about it, I get in to the worse moods and just feel like getting in bed, shutting the blinds and just sleeping all day. I am so angry that this man who hurt me so much, (he dumped me ten days before our wedding) is able to have these precious little things in his life! To make it all worse, the same day that I found out about him AF showed her UGLY face I just feel so alone and so betrayed by God and life.
I just dont know how to get over it; I have tried everything, writing down all the positive things in my life v/s the negative that my life would have been with him, going out shopping, chatting to friends, taking it out at the gym etc, etc, etc,
I feel like Im at the end of my tether with no where to go
deleted_user
This too shall pass...Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers because I can't even imagine how you feel.
deleted_user
i am so sorry
CarrieDawn
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. I don't even know what to say because I imagine I'd be feeling a lot like you do right now if I were in your position. I'm praying for you, hon.
deleted_user
I'm so so sorry. I wish I could take away your pain and frustration. Sending extra hugs your way to help get you through!
deleted_user
It always seems that way - irresponsible jerks get to have their kids. Well, you don't know what life is like in ex's household. Be so glad you don't have to be a part of it. Your day will come and you will have so much more.
deleted_user
I sm sorry, I hope you are feeling better soon, It can only get better from this point on. You have to believe that and forget about him and his situataion (I know way easier said than done) BIG HUGS TO YOU.
deleted_user
I am so sorry! I understand how you feel. It is beyond unfair for people like that to have such a wonderful blessing when the rest of us (who would make the best of parents!) cannot conceive without medical science. Praying for you in this difficult time! ***HUGS***
nikkinash08
Aww-- Sweetie im so sorry. I dont know what to say. But i have been low befire and it does get better.
deleted_user
Life can be so unfair! Don't lose faith. Your day is coming soon! Hugs!
theletter12
I'm sorry that you got this devastating news. I too have an ex who broke off a wedding...5 months to the date not as bad as 10 days. I truely feel for you. I think you are taking things in the right direction in making a list of things good for you. I know its hard. Try and treat yourself to something special that you enjoy. One thing I have done so that I don't hear ex updates because they hurt so much...is that I have either cut off contact with those who talked about him or I have told people outright not to mention him or his family to me ever.
deleted_user
I know hearing the news about your ex stings. But I say, cling tighter to your DH, be more appreciative of him. And just think, if you and the ex had gotten married, he might have cheated on you, been abusive or anything. Or you might have simply been unhappy. It's better to have split with him before getting married than after. Block him out of your mind and focus on your hubby and yourself. Your ex isn't a part of your life anymore. I'm a firm believer of what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
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