Hi,
This keeps happening doesn't it? Someone you know who isn't ready emotionally, financially etc. has a kid no problem. It happened to a friend of a friend last year and I was pissed, but the woman got her act together since then and adores her daughter. I know it's hard to accept, I go through this myself, but you have to hope that this woman will love and care for her baby and that things will work out in the end.

I feel your frustration. Every day I am faced with counseling (or trying my darnedest to) children and families, most of whom have parents that don't care or neglect and abuse their children. In my personal life I have had -- oh just about everyone I know who is of child bearing age get pregnant and have a baby this past year whether they are ready or not. We've been trying over 8 years on some level or another. After failing at IVF I thought my heart would break. I just wondered why them, why not me?

But that really doesn't help anything. It only feeds negativity and sadness. I have really been working hard on accepting myself and letting go of the bad. It feels very counter productive to compare yourself with others. There are no easy answers in this. It just sucks. I am trying to focus on what I CAN DO and know that in the end I will have done everything possible out of love for the family I desire with all of my heart.

I truly hope and pray that you are able to find some peace and that your family comes soon. Wishing you a BFP in the very enar future.

It doesn't make sense. I quit trying to make sense over situations like this. I'm so, so sorry.

oooo dis drives me crazy but i hate to think bad things ...:( but its only natural 4 us to react like dis wer mad at life i,m mostly mad at god sumtimes its so so not fair when good people can,t get sumthing thats suppose to b so simple get married hav babies not !!! why ????? sumtimes i just don,t understand ...:( feelin ye girl

be strong .........................................................:)x

Life just is so not fair! I feel ya! This is so unfair. It happens time and time again. My husbands cousin had a baby at 17, abandoned him and ran away. She showed up home 1.5 years later, pregnant again, and the cycle repeats, abandoned the next one. Her little boys are so beautiful. They are suffering because of how she is with them, in and out and not your model parent... I cannot believe God blessed her with not one, but two healthy boys to mistreat and neglect. It is awful. I am anticipating a BFN on Friday. It is such a frustrating process. I am sorry you are hurting Hand in there, Im praying for you.

I know it doesn't help, but When NOT IF, but when you and your husband have a baby you will be able to say with all honesty that there was nothing that you were not willing to do to get him or her. And that they were wanted more than anything in the world; not " well your father forgot to put a rubber on and the damage was already done" . I am sorry that you are being hurt, and wish you didn't have to wait for your miricle.