I totally know how you feel. All my friends who were pregnant not long ago are now pregnant again, with #2's. It is such a rotten feeling.

i totally understand- we are at 4 years too... with no explaination. It is hard to wrap our heads around why this happens, and to which of us it happens to. I hope you can find peace in the middle of the messy feelings that sortof stab us all day. Just know there are a ton of us in your saem boat with you.

You are not the only one. It's been about a year for us. It is so hard to see everyone else be so happy. Unplanned, first try, under 20 and not married, etc. All I can hang onto is that God has a reason for it and I must trust in that 'cause sometimes that's all I have... but you are not alone. Prayers and hugs to you. Hang in there.

I know how you feel. Hang in there! Are you considering IVF?

I know how you feel and you're not alone. In the past two months I received the news of 5 girls I know being pregnant. One after the other. It sucks!!! I agree with Chev that God has a plan for me and he's only making me stronger. We have to have faith and hope for our babies to come to our lives soon.

Me and my husband have been together for a little over 7 years and we have never used any protection...We always said if it happens it happens...We have officially been trying for roughly about 5 1/2 yrs now...Well it hasn't happened yet...I know how it is when everyone else around you is having babies and all your friends have kids some even several...
My husbands family has had atleast 3 pregnancies a year for the last 5 yrs..Us and one other couple in the family are the only ones that haven't had kids yet...Out of all the couples in his family we have been together the longest and have been trying the longest...Talk about fun on the holidays..We have to deal with seeing all the kids and all the new babies and maybe if it was only one new baby it wouldn't be so bad, but 3 a year....
I'm trying to keep faith and hope that God will bless us soon with our little miracle, but sometimes it's hard...I wish you the best of luck and I hope you get your BFP soon!!! You, me and the rest of us that's been trying for so long..

Not going to do IVF. Early on in IF I always felt if it got that point I didnt' want to go further. I feel that IVF would be too stressful on my psyche...we have unexplained IF. I know alot of people do IVF but the odds just aren't good and it is all out of pocket money with no guarantee. I didn't want to run out of money and have no baby and then no hope of ever having a child because I'd have no money to adopt. It is all very hard. We are looking into adoption but it takes some letting go of having your own child. Very hard to do.

I'm so sorry, I know how you feel. It's been 4 years for us and watching all our friends and family who have been married after us pass us by in family building. And then trying to make the difficult decision on when to stop treatment and move on either with adoption or child free living is so overwhelming. Sometimes it's easier to hang out in limbo not making any decision. But I do believe we all have a purpose and you will find yours. I hope you find some peace in the midst of all the chaos.

Oh I am sooo with you! My favorite is when my friends who have delt with IVF have all had their babies and the anniversaries of their BFP have come and gone...That is really hard for me to deal with lately. I am starting to worry about hold old I will be when I have a baby (fingers crossed). I never wanted to be an old mom...