i'm so sorry hun.... it is so unfair, and you have every right to feel the way you do. hang in there sweetie.

I can so relate. Been dealing with that lately myself since a bunch of DS friends who got pregnant when I did last year are all giving birth in the last few weeks. It's hard to be happy for them but having positive thoughts and prayers for other will bring positive things to your life ten fold. Hoping you feel better soon and remember you are not alone. XO ;)

You will get your chance, when it's time, I am 40, in a few or more years and not that frustrated. Keep your hopes up.

I'm sorry. This roller coaster we are on is so unfair. Remember that your child is going to be amazing. Good things come to those who wait. That's what I try to tell myself. Hang in there.

Oh honey, I'm so sorry. I'm so terrified of the next few weeks...a coworker is due mid-May 2 weeks before my due date. I'm completely dreading it. I am praying that you will find the strength to hold you head high. I'm with you and ready for my miracle!

Oh, I'm sorry! I know what you mean. The girl who teaches next door to me was pregnant when I was before my miscarriage, and now her boy is 2 years old. It's taken me all this time to feel nothing when I see him but happiness. Years. I kept wondering what was wrong with me, I didn't think it would take so long to get over the loss. Seeing a physical reminder of what you lost is very difficult.

My BEST friend and I were pregnant at the same time. We were only 4 weeks apart. We went to the same doctor same everything. When i lost my son at 17 weeks it was really really hard. I could not even see her for a while. Her baby shower was horific. It actually took me 2 trips to BRU to buy her presant as i had a melt down the first time. But that was over 7 years ago and it has gotton ALOT better. I will always see my God daughter and think about what i am missing. But the jelousey is gone and its more a nostalgic feeling. Time does help, I promise.

Thank you so much ladies

I have never been pregnant.... and am not even sure that i can get pregnant. I have addisons disease which israre to begin with. Now my antibodies are attacking my ovaries and they cannot figure why.

Today I was just horribly upset. When a fertility specialist tells you that you are very rare and he doesnt know what to do- you just drop to a new low. And no one, not even my husband can understand how i feel.

All I can say is.... scream, cry, cuss, throw things. Get mad. Let it out. It is important that you express your pain. I did that today. In the car driving home. I just screamed and cried. It isnt fair. And yes, im fucking pissed. I believe in God. But at times like this I just have a hard time believing anymore. What did we do to deserve this?

Anyway, there is a letter that you can show your friends to help them understand. I am going to print it out tomorrow and give it to my mom. She just says the wrong things. She said today "You are stressing yourself out. It will happen, you just need to relax" and I of course got upset and said "No mom. Stress isnt whats keeping me from getting pregnant. I have a disease and complications with my autoimmune system. " She really needs to read this letter because it says it all.

http://blog.toadilyhandmade4u.com/2009/07/11/infertility-letter-to-family-and-friends.aspx?view=threaded

This will help people understand.