Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
My second IVF just failed. I'm in a really bad place and starting to lose hope that I will ever have a baby. The one dream I have always had. I feel so bad that I am putting my husband through this. I just can't stop crying!
chadswife
Oh, I understand! This journey is so hard and so hurtful. It is often more than I think I can bear. It's ok to cry and to mourn. After every failed IVF, I mourned for months. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. Perhaps meet with RE and ask his / her advice. Are there other preparatory regimens they would suggest (there is some controversy about high vs low), other meds to add, etc? You can also consider a second opinion BC every RE has their own style. Hang in there and don't lose hope. Sometimes it's all we have when dealing with infertility. Hugs!
michie97
Thank you so much @Chadswife, this is just harder then I could have ever imagined. We have an appointment with RE on Monday, so we will see, just afraid .
MrsO.
@michie97 I hope you are feeling even a little better today. After our failed FET in February, I didn't think I would ever feel happiness or hope again. I've come to realise that I need to grieve each loss. For me, it wasn't just the loss of the embryo, but all our hopes for the person it could have been and how our life would change. I really had to give myself the space and time to just be sad. It's so hard to put one foot in front of the other and keep going when you feel like this. But I keep trying to remind myself that I don't know what the future will hold, good or bad. All I have is today and I will try to find some happiness in it, even if it's only small and for a moment.
Jash
@michie97- I have had two failures as of now and it was devastating.I have taken a break for now and will resume in June . As each and every day passes things will get better and you will feel better .Mourn and cry and clear it out whenever you feel like . Think through of your next steps , take a break and do things that could make you happy even if it's as small as listening to music. Prayers to you and baby dust to all of us !!
michie97
Thank you so much ladies, this week has been so hard and it really helps to have people who understand because iir feels like no one does!! I think with Mother's Day this weekend it makes so hard on all of us!! It means so much to me your kind words and I hope everything work out for all of you , Baby dust to all!!
fffFFF
Hi, I am sorry to know your story. I think yr doc should dig deeper to find out more why you can't conceive. Have you thought on doing additional tests as karyotyping, vit D level or pgs ngs? Baby dust
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