Ok- here are my thoughts of why the 2ww is so damn hard on us. The first 2 weeks of our cycles, we are doing all sorts of experiements- bbt chart, opk sticks, going to the RE's for bloodwork, U/S, giving shots, taking pills, counting days, scheduling IUI's, working things out with DH, checking CM, and baby dancing like mad........ we have no time to worry about the "what ifs". Not only that, but we are in CONTROL for those two weeks. Once everything is said and done- it's no longer up to us doing things right, it's up to the big man upstairs! We now must suffer through every twinge, tickle, tingling nipple episodes, blue vein appearances, etc. etc.... until we know the truth! I am only 1dpo- and I had this epiphany in the shower this morning. Thought I'd share and I am hoping I'm not the only one losing my mind here. BABY DUST to all!!!!!!
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