Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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MomHopes 08/10/2009

My 2ww ended early once again with AF. It came at work and I just wanted to curl up and cry. I managed to hold back the tears all day until I got home. I'm so angry, depressed, sad and frustrated....just about every emotion except happy. I'm really wondering if it will ever happen. I think I'm done with IUIs. This was my 8th. I got pregnant on my 5th but miscarried in January. Today was my due date which makes this BFN even tougher to handle.

deleted_user 08/10/2009

i lost a baby last year 6/08 and have been unable to get preg since. Every month when AF showed up i would cry i dont know how i have made it thru the work day sometimes. i leave work and get in the parking lot and the tears fall. i then learned that my husb has a low sperm count so this week we should have our first IUI. i took clomid and finished last night and i am supposed to use a opk on Thurs morn and if ovulating proceed to the sperm bank and then to my ob. i am so nervous and scared because like u if it doesnt happen and af comes i am going to fall to pieces. i am so sorry for your loss and that it didnt happen yet. XX

deleted_user 08/10/2009

I'm so sorry to hear this.

deleted_user 08/10/2009

i feel your pain!!
i whish i cold make all this feelings go away for you because i felt this too... im so sorry you got a BFN .. but im sure you will get a positive..
dont give up ...

nanda1979 08/10/2009

I am so sorry.Hope you feel better soon :(

deleted_user 08/11/2009

I am so sorry to hear. I had an early miscarriage back in April, and every BFN since followed by AF makes me cry. Hang in there.

deleted_user 08/11/2009

I'm so sorry sweetie! I am at the end of my 2ww and just feel like AF is right there. I really hope it waits until I get home. My work has seen me cry way to many times and I know that I will cry when it happens this time.

deleted_user 08/11/2009

I am so sorry. I am in the same boat as you. This was my 3rd IUI was supposed to go in for B/W today and started spotting yesterday, today full blown AF. trying to contemplate my next step for when i see RE tomorrow. Continue IUI or move on? I am here if you need me...hugs

deleted_user 08/11/2009

Im so sorry that you are having such a rough road to your baby! Believe me, God has plans for us and we just have to be patient. I know it's easy to say but I know how you feel. I had 3 failed IVF cycles that costed me a fortune that I never had! There is a light at the end of this emotional tunnel. Try to stay strong.

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