Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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lina2008 05/11/2011

Another one... how much longer will I have to keep being disappointed?

its now been 5 1/2 years, 3 IVFs and one miscarriage later and I am still aching to hold my child.

I feel like someone just kicked me in the guts again...

SharynMarie 05/11/2011

My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry.

deleted_user 05/11/2011

I am so sorry. Each BFN and each time AF comes is like a kick in the stomach. I hope things come together as they should so you can get that BFP....soon!

deleted_user 05/11/2011

I'm so sorry. Even when you're expecting to see a negative result, it still manages to break your heart all over again.

FNP 05/11/2011

Lina. I'm sorry. It's heartwrenching. Know you are in my prayers

deleted_user 05/12/2011

I am so sorry. It is so frustrating and so many people don't understand. I had 13 years TTC and finally now that I am almost 40 I am almost 15 weeks prego. We made the tough decision to go with donor eggs because I wanted the best opportunity to be a mom and my eggs now that I was finally making some just weren't good. You still have some more options to try if you choose but it isn't right for everyone. I hope you are able to find some peace. We are fortunate to have so many options available to us these days but the heartache is still devastating.

deleted_user 05/12/2011

I am so very sorry.

deleted_user 05/12/2011

Sending you peace & love. There truly are no words...so very sorry! Look for support wherever you may find comfort, this site has helped me tremendously!

deleted_user 05/12/2011

Totally know where you are coming from!! 3 1/2 yrs of ttc 5 rounds of IUI and all BFN!!! were going to try the IVF after the summer, taking a little break and have some fun vacations.

But chin up! i have 3 friends that they all went through this, and just when they said enough is enough and started to look into adoption or just took a few months off..BAM! i think its when we settle down and not think about it 24/7 (easier said then done..trust me i know) but, sometimes GOD wants it to be on his terms rather than ours!!

Sending you peace and unerdstanding that everything is up to him..

and remember..

Every step you take is one step closer to your dream...some of us just have to take a few extra steps!!

bk42author 05/12/2011

I am so sorry for your loss.

deleted_user 05/12/2011

so sorry, sayin a little prayer for u x

deleted_user 05/12/2011

Sending prayers your way!

deleted_user 05/12/2011

ugh!! I totally know how you feel! It's like the worst feeling ever. I have been ttc for almost two years and every month I go through a roller coaster of emotions...hopeful, determined, anxious, excited, and then BFN!! It's like...no one seems to understand the loss you feel inside unless you are going through it. Stay strong. It will happen! Don't give up! Hugs!!

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