Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
MomHopes
I am so mad at myself for testing this morning!! Now my hope is diminished and I'm so upset! Today is day 32 of my cycle. I couldn't do any treatments this month because my ovaries were still stimulated from last cycle. But my RE said "we always get pregnancies on rest cycles so be sure to try on your own." So that gave me hope and when I didn't get my period the last two days my hopes started getting higher. I wanted to wait to day 35 but I gave in this morning and took and HPT. Of course it showed up negative. I just kept staring at it hoping a second line would appear but no, of course not. What was I thinking...it could never be that easy. I'm not like every pregnant person I know. I have to spend lots of money and give myself shots and see the doctor a million times to even have a chance. Uggggggggggggggg..................I hate IF!!!
deleted_user
Sorry, i know what you mean. Why can't it be that easy, it's not fair. Hope the test is wrong.
deleted_user
you are totally right!!! no matter how hard i try not to wonder why me??? i just cant helo it and i keep asking god why meeeee????? why out of my big huge family only me????
kimbochi
AMEN- I am very sorry for your BFN!!!!! IF SUCKS!
deleted_user
I am so sorry to hear that you got a BFN. Hope is a blessing and curse. You don't want to think about what if.... but you can help it. I will be thinking of you... and again I am soo sorry that you didn't get a BFP.
krriss10k
You are completely right. I hope you still get your BFP this month. Hopefully you tested too early:)
deleted_user
I am so very sorry.
deleted_user
I am so sorry. IF is just unfair and cruel.
deleted_user
I know exactly how you feel. For the last two months i have been on days 36 and 42 before AF showed. Which is very unusual for me. Both times i was throwing up and sick to my stomach which lead me to believe this is it. This is the month!! Only to pee on the dang stick and yet again see negatives. It's so heartbreaking but hang in there!!
deleted_user
I'm sorry and I know how you feel. Why can't this be easy and why us? I hate IF too!!!!
deleted_user
I'm so sorry. :(
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