Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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Jazmin7 11/17/2015

Hey ladies so this year is 4 years ttc for us. This month we had our first IUI with injectables. Everything looked perfect great count, perfect linning and one nice 21mm follie. I wasnt supposed to test till 14-15dpiui but i couldnt help it and tested today and it was negative im so crushed. I have never felt so low....we had alot invested in this cycle.

blbnjf 11/18/2015

I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I understand the lowest of the low- I have literally prayed that I would not wake up in the morning after another failed fertility procedure. I just wanted to go to sleep and not wake up to feel the pain. Our infertility struggles are so unfair, but we just have to move forward and one day we will find our peace and happiness. You are not alone and it will get better- you just have to stay strong to get through this.

Halterbroke 11/20/2015

Don't give up just yet! I tested negative until a few days after my expected period, day 16 or 17. And the day before I got a positive test, I had a negative one. So definitely wait and test again and try not to read too much into an early BFN. Best of luck and keeping my fingers crossed for you that you get your BFP in a few days.

mkpatz 11/21/2015

I'm so sorry and can totally relate to what you're going through. I just had my 2nd failed IUI (1st one with injectables) and everything looked great with me as well. We inseminated on my birthday. I felt so calm and peaceful and positive. It felt meant to be. But it wasn't. I cried for days. It's so hard to pick yourself up again and get your heart and body ready for another try. I think it's important to let yourself grieve for this cycle. It's a necessary part of the process. BUT! Hopefully you are in a situation like Halterbroke and simply tested too soon. Happens all the time! Hang in there and sending hopeful thoughts!!

wweila 11/26/2015

Hi Jazmin7,
I'm really sorry you are feeling so low. It can be really difficult to come to terms with something so out of our control. Don't give up just yet-have hope and test again in a few days. Praying for you.

heretochat 02/07/2016

Hi, Jazmin! I'm so, so terribly sorry for that!!
If only the things could work out from the very first time. My dear, this is so unfair you must go through that pain for that long. I really want to sound supportive as I know the painful feeling pretty well. For us this was 2 years TTC, poor egg quality - egg donation the only way out.
I know I'll love my DE baby as my OE one. But all this waiting is just unbearably hard..
Holly x

mja0317 02/12/2016

I am so sorry. I understand where you are coming from. We went through the same thing after our first IUI in December. I had the same feelings, and the disappointment on my husband's face after I told him that the test was negative hurt my heart.We just did our 2nd IUI last week...I am going to try to wait till the 14-15dpiui to test this time.

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