Incest Survivors Support Group
Incest refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons that is illegal or socially taboo. Consensual adult incest is very rare. Incest between adults and prepubescent or adolescent children is a form of child sexual abuse that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood trauma. If you or a loved one is a survivor of incest, join the group...
I think that although it is hard to understand for someone who has not been in the situation, when you are in an abusive situation, of an incestuous nature or not, the abusers are often clever enough to start small, a comment here, a gentle touch there, gradually normalising the actions so that as they progress the victim is unable to see how it is abuse.
I am here if you need to talk about this. It is difficult to know how to react to situations where you are being told information like this. However hopefully you have learnt from this situation and will be better equipped should it happen again
I hope that this girl can get the help that she needs to realise that what is happening is wrong and that this is just one step up on a scale of how bad things have the potential to become
"I can hold out my hand, but I can't make you take it."
I know and you know she's being abused-if she wasn't playing games with you.
If she was on the level, she seems to not WANT to know she's being abused.
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I'm not sure I can help her...denial can be very powerful.