Incest Survivors Support Group
Incest refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons that is illegal or socially taboo. Consensual adult incest is very rare. Incest between adults and prepubescent or adolescent children is a form of child sexual abuse that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood trauma. If you or a loved one is a survivor of incest, join the group...
My LDR guy, whom I am going to go see in less than a month now, sent me a picture of himself today and my first thought was
*Sigh*, oh, that face...
Then, something about the mustache he was wearing...And I'm like...oh, crap...
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My uncle wore his mustache like that a lot. My uncle has blonde facial hair. My uncle raped me.
I don't talk about it that much because, unlike my dad, it only happened once. My parents were moving into the new house, my grandma came over to watch me...and she refused to learn how to drive. So my 17-year-old uncle got dragooned into playing chauffeur for her a lot.
Well, she was downstairs watching TV, it was turned up loud because she had poor hearing. I went up to use the bathroom...and my uncle followed me up the stairs, followed me into the bathroom...and just attacked me. No warning, nothing...I started to make noise though and so he started choking me to keep me from making too much noise. This may be why I saw the rest of the rape from outside the second-story window.
Afterward, he wiped the blood off me with a washrag, and then just walked away. I went and laid down in my bed and felt myself breaking apart into pieces inside.
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All that to say why I asked my beloved to change his facial hair up, and why I needed him to. And I cried because it is SO unfair that my uncle gets to intrude like that between my beautiful man and me. It's not fair at all.
*Sigh*, oh, that face...
Then, something about the mustache he was wearing...And I'm like...oh, crap...
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My uncle wore his mustache like that a lot. My uncle has blonde facial hair. My uncle raped me.
I don't talk about it that much because, unlike my dad, it only happened once. My parents were moving into the new house, my grandma came over to watch me...and she refused to learn how to drive. So my 17-year-old uncle got dragooned into playing chauffeur for her a lot.
Well, she was downstairs watching TV, it was turned up loud because she had poor hearing. I went up to use the bathroom...and my uncle followed me up the stairs, followed me into the bathroom...and just attacked me. No warning, nothing...I started to make noise though and so he started choking me to keep me from making too much noise. This may be why I saw the rest of the rape from outside the second-story window.
Afterward, he wiped the blood off me with a washrag, and then just walked away. I went and laid down in my bed and felt myself breaking apart into pieces inside.
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All that to say why I asked my beloved to change his facial hair up, and why I needed him to. And I cried because it is SO unfair that my uncle gets to intrude like that between my beautiful man and me. It's not fair at all.
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I feel so dirty and used I was drunk and passed out at a party when I came around some guy was on top of me rapeing me he covered my mouth and told me to shut up afterwards he got up and got dressed and said I better not tell anyone I found my friend and reported that I had been raped after having medical checks and them getting DNA I've taken the morning after pill IAM just so depressed and...
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Upon his departure, he remarked, "I am in many people’s pockets; no one will believe you." Have you ever grappled with the silence that follows sexual assault, where the perceived impossibility of being believed necessitates self-censorship?
It's good you talk about it now.
Be safe, do what you need to make your little one feel safe again.
hugs