Incest Survivors Support Group

Incest refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons that is illegal or socially taboo. Consensual adult incest is very rare. Incest between adults and prepubescent or adolescent children is a form of child sexual abuse that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood trauma. If you or a loved one is a survivor of incest, join the group...

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Wheezie
Wheezie
I just dropped a bombshell on a local reporter explaining the judicial system and it's many faults when it comes to abuse survivors.I'm now wondering if this woman is an abuse survivor is she over there reeling with triggers and PTSD from my email. I hope I didn't hurt her but the truth needs to be known.
deleted_user
deleted_user
...Or maybe she is just fine and shocked by what you said.
You are not responsible for anyone else's emotions or feelings.
If she is hurt it was her abuser who hurt her, not you.
Wheezie
Wheezie
So true Breaking.Thank you very much.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Breaking....excellent reply :) I totally agree!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good for you Wheezie!! It needs to be heard, over and over until they get it.

And you are very effective in your words.And know what you're talking about.

I agree it needs to be told and heard regardless of how they take it (adults) and children just need to hear in words they can understand it.
Wheezie
Wheezie
Thank you very much Anonymousse.I tell ya sometimes I feel like yelling it until the denial zombies ears bleed! LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
We all should!
hugs :)
acaseofyou12581
acaseofyou12581
Yeah, she knew what she was getting into. She'll be okay. She has that job for a reason. Also, chihuahuas are the shit.
Wheezie
Wheezie
Yes I love my little chihuahua! Her name is Winky.We named her after the house elf from Harry Potter.
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's a great name for a chihuahua
Wheezie
Wheezie
No response yet from this reporter.This makes me wonder if she is an abuse survivor maybe she dissociated my entire email.It wouldn't be the first time that has happened to me.
Wheezie
Wheezie
Well after another email to this reporter saying that I have all corroborating evidence in both psychology and criminal records as well as other victims saying these men abused them to back up my claims she finally responded and said there is nothing they can do.I'm not surprised.Denial my friends is complete bullshit.
acaseofyou12581
acaseofyou12581
I definitely feel your pain this week, Wheezie.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry to hear that wheezie. we always hope someone out there will give a voice to this but truly the do not care until if effects them personally. keep up the good hard work and save your breath on the zombies they are just life sucking oxygen thieves.
Wheezie
Wheezie
Thank you Case and Maninthemirror.It was disappointing but not a surprise.I was a little worried that news coming out before these people were actaully arrested may have hindered these cases so maybe it was for the best.