Incest Survivors Support Group
Incest refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons that is illegal or socially taboo. Consensual adult incest is very rare. Incest between adults and prepubescent or adolescent children is a form of child sexual abuse that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood trauma. If you or a loved one is a survivor of incest, join the group...



Have you looked into therapy for yourself? I found a free therapist through the hotline at RAINN.org. Free therapy is not available everywhere but there are low-cost options as well. Most of us would agree that therapy is essential for healing.
Also, you have to figure out what forgiveness means to you. I find that it means different things to different people. For me, it means that I am ready to move on and accept that person back as though it never happened. It means you are back in my life with no strings attached. So I have a hard time forgiving my abusers. For others, it simply means letting go of it. Some say it's about getting rid of any ill feelings you have towards that person.
What matters though is that you find peace with yourself. How you do that is as individual as each of us.