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Incest refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons that is illegal or socially taboo. Consensual adult incest is very rare. Incest between adults and prepubescent or adolescent children is a form of child sexual abuse that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood trauma. If you or a loved one is a survivor of incest, join the group...

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So confused :(

theblackrose
theblackrose
Im tired of being alone and single, i want to get another girlfriend... but i cant trust or even really love after all the shit thats happened. Relationships always fall apart and i dont want to risk getting hurt, i dont think i could take anymore hurt. Im also thinging about maybe just going back to the old days where i threw myself out there and just let people use me.... i dont know anymore :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
you can't go back, you deserve better than that. be gentle on yourself and don't rush yourself, relationships and friendships are hard to establish and even harder to keep. Be your own best friend first and then you will know yourself well enough to know who you want to share your life with.
I have always been with someone, unfortunately to the detriment of knowing myself and what i want out of life. Now with two beautiful teenagers and a husband i am trying to know myself. Damn it's hard.
Goodluck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You can't trust new people, relationships don't work.
OK. It's shit, but not as much shit as going back to the old days when you let people use you.

You are perfect as you are. Can you make friends with yourself?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ppl do suck but you get lucky once in a while. If you never try you will miss that chance. Good luck. I know how you feel.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have been married most my life and yet so very ALONE. I understand how your feeling. I do hope that you find someone you can trust, and have a really great frienship with :)
but please dont throw yourself out there -- you will find someone,