Hello everybody, I'm new to this group. I'm a 30 year old gay guy from Mexico, and well I've been dealing with ED for a few years now. I was in a LTR for 8 years and around the time we were like 3 years together I started with this kind of issue, every little thing was enough to make me lose my erection, if he tickled me somehow, or if we switched positions, or even when putting on the condom, the erection was gone and that was it, no way to get it back no matter how much I tried or even him to help me, and of course I got frustrated and angry and it only made things worse, eventually it did take a toll in our relationship to the point that we hardly had sex at all. The most frustrating part was that I had absolutely no problem getting hard and staying hard while masturbating, it was only when having sex. After we broke up I avoided guys for a while and been without having sex or dating for about 3 years now, and 2 weeks ago one guy asked me out and things happened and we were making out and everything was working great, but at some point I lost my erection again and I freaked out, and again no matter how hot he is and whatever he tried, my erection didn't come back at all. He told me not to worry and that maybe it was because I hadn't been with anyone in a while. A few days after we went out again and yet again same thing happened, he gave me a Bj and everything was ok, and when things were about to go further, my erection died again. I just couldn't take it anymore and left, I was so ashamed and embarrassed and angry with myself. I have no problems at all getting hard when I masturbate, or watching porn or even talking about sex with friends.. but it's freaking me out that I can't keep an erection when I want to have sex, I don't know what to do, has any of you been through something like this? I'll appreciate your advice.