Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.
My husband has had ED for over three years now. At first he told him he had a "broke dick" when he was on a deployment. I asked what happened and he said he didn't know it just wouldn't work. We went to a doctor who gave him a prescription. He took only one pill and said he didn't like the way it made him feel. I recently caught him with a women. He now tells me he only has erectile dysfunction with me, that I don't turn him on.... I have also discovered that he is on web site to meet for discreet sex. He has that he loves to give and receive oral sex. So I guess my questions are: Can a man have ED with one person? Can porn make a man have ED unless he is watching porn? He keeps telling me that it is me, I don't turn him on, he's not attracted to me... Maybe it is because I don't want to believe it but why would he only be looking for oral sex? Is he possibly on these web sites to see if he can get it up? Or am I the cause of it because he doesn't want to be with me anymore?
So sorry that you're going through such a confusing and unhappy time.
So your husbands first episode of ED was when he wasn't with you, is that right? But then he says it only happens with you? So he's contradicting himself right off.
Goodness knows what's going on with him really. Everything he's saying is aimed at making you feel responsible. That seems harsh. He needs to be honest so that you aren't trying to piece his cruel words and the stuff you're finding on these sites he visits into something you can understand.
But why do want to put up with this? Are you hoping all his unkindness is caused by him trying to deal with his 'broke dick' and that if you can unravel it all then things will be ok again?
There's more going on here than ED and I feel you need to get the truth out of him.
Oh, and I've never met a guy who didn't like oral sex lol. Even the old guys with ED I've known who've come to terms with no intercourse still crave oral sex!
Good luck x
http://yourbrainonporn.com/how-long-will-it-take
if a person has ED he will have penile failure every time he will engaged in activity. Yes, extra inclination towards porn can lead to erectile problem.
www.naturemedies.co.uk
I do think porn can produce ED as it is like mental adultery and will certainly affect one's relationship with one's wife. We are seeing so much of this and it is painful to read it.
http://healthmattersolutions.com/ed/
There are more topic related to your problem and I hope you’ll find the solution.
Yes, porn can cause ED. I think I suffered from it. I also felt that may be I am not attracted to my wife anymore. But after my marriage was over, I realised that I couldn't get it up for another woman either. I realised I have a problem. And I decided to solve it. By God's grace, I managed to solve it and ma living a sexually active life.
I'll be happy to help you with details if you're interested.
Hope you can find your solution.