Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group

Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.

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Sexless marriage

4jesus
4jesus

My husband and I are relatively still young (he's 43 and I'm 35). Been married 14 years, no kids yet (had a miscarriage back in 2011).  Since 2011 to now, sex has gradually gotten less and less and now to nothing.  We still see each other naked but there is no fooling around or even sexual touching much anymore.  I would say it has been a year since the last time we tried to have sex.  We've been to the doctor (no prostate issues).  He won't take any pills and won't do any injections.  We have a vacuum pump which now hasn't been used in about 9+ months.  He does take meds that effects his limbido (according to the side effects).  


Who else is relatively young with ED issues with their spouse and have no kids?  How is it affecting your marriage?  

4jesus
4jesus
Anyone?
frustratedpoet0001
frustratedpoet0001
I have had the same problem f0r years, started happening around 42 and I am now 53, Viagra works for me but if he doesn't like medicine why try vacurrect. they work great!
4jesus
4jesus
Thanks, I will check these alternatives out
candycin
candycin
I am the spouse of a recovering porn addict and until he admitted that he was watching porn and masturbating the dr did the same. Threw pills at him, checked everything medically and there was nothing. Porn is one of the main reasons for ED. People dont like to admit it but once he stopped watching porn and stopped masturbating. YES he actually stopped he has never had ED again and that was 4 years ago. Have an honest discussion with him about porn and masturbation. People dont like to link the 2 together.
SexuallyReborn
SexuallyReborn
Hi, sorry to hear about your problem. I've had similar issues. I am 41 now. Started to face ED type issues from about 36 or 37. Lived through a pretty sexless marriage. But now its over. It was terrible. I am sure it would have been worse for my wife. She had to suffer through it for no fault of hers.

However, after my marriage got over, I managed to get to the bottom of the issue and find a solution. Now am leading an active, happy sexual life. All naturally. I've written about it on my blog naturalviagrablog.wordpress.com

I'll be happy to help you with more details, if you're interested.

Hope you find a solution to your situation.

Best wishes.