Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.
I've been married now for almost a year and my husband and I have yet to consummate our marriage. We waited until we were married to have sex. We did some have petting so I do know he was able to get an erection. He has high.blood pressure so the medication is the cause. We have tried the injections and they are not working. We are asking the Dr for a stronger dosage. I haven't been able to talk to anyone because I don't want to embarrass my husband. I am so at a loss.
Sorry to hear about your problem. I can understand because I too was in a marriage for 5 years during which I couldn't properly have sex with my wife. It was a terrible situation.
From experience I can tell that you and your husband need to have a fair and frank discussion. Be calm through it, do not get emotional, be kind and understanding. Believe me, it's as difficult for your husband as it is for you. He'll need to know you're supportive and understanding for him to get to the bottom of this and solve it.
I didn't have a medical condition. My guess is that my problem was due to my porn / masturbation addiction. It stopped me from enjoying the real act. Plus, there might have been anxiety, performance pressure type situation as well. Unfortunately, we never addressed the issue until a lot of water had flown down the bridge and the marriage ended.
Later, I did go to the bottom of it and solve my problem. All through natural medication methods from the wealth of knowledge of Ayurveda - India's ancient medicine sciences. I am now single, but leading a healthy, active, sexual life. It's amazing.
My advice to men: Stop watching porn, stop masturbating habitually, stop addiction to drugs and alcohol, eat and live healthy. Your sex life will automatically get better.
I'll be happy to share with you how I solved the problem. Please pvt message me, if you're interested.
All the best.