Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.
I personally don't know any gay men with this problem but I don't think that a man is the only person this affects
Women have a hard time coping with ed as well and it is hard for straight men too to talk to a prospective partner
There will be rejections of course and that is really hard to take
but if you are open and honest there might be someone out there who likes getting oral and giving sex
I have a good friend (gay) who does not like receiving anal sex but loves giving and performing oral maybe there is someone near you with the same tastes
Good luck