Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group
Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.
My friends and I are in our late 50's and finding that the guys we go out with now (aged 60+) are often having problems with ED.
It's really frustrating all round but it happens, and very often guys tell you either it's the first time, it's never happened to him before or that he doesn't usually have a problem etc.
One guy said it to me over and over immediately afterwards. I said not to worry about it and to try to put it out of his head. We broke up after that but he didn't stop saying it until I asked him how he thought it made me feel to know he could perform with everyone else except me. I'm that ugly eh?
We'd rather think it happens with all women, not that we're so unattractive and unsexy that we've rendered a man impotent.
Thanks guys
It's really frustrating all round but it happens, and very often guys tell you either it's the first time, it's never happened to him before or that he doesn't usually have a problem etc.
One guy said it to me over and over immediately afterwards. I said not to worry about it and to try to put it out of his head. We broke up after that but he didn't stop saying it until I asked him how he thought it made me feel to know he could perform with everyone else except me. I'm that ugly eh?
We'd rather think it happens with all women, not that we're so unattractive and unsexy that we've rendered a man impotent.
Thanks guys
You cannot let others "issues" bother who you are. I'm learning this. When it's time, try a sexy hotel if they are in your area. Invite toys into it if he can't perform. Be very upfront you love to play and from past experiences, men have had issues (or even you if you have), and that you want to be satisfied any way possible WITH HIM.
I will say 99% of the time ED is the cause and not a womans looks. I also dont believe a man can have sex with other women and not with one woman in particular unless there is some bad history between the two. But that has nothing to do with looks.
I told my daughters if you dont think you are pretty neither will anyone else and dont let any man take that from you.
Believe me its not you.
Yes, it i-s frustrating BIG-time....I know!! But how about getting to know the guys for a longgggg time and giving yourself a chance to find out exactly who they are and what, other than a penis, might make them a nice addition to your life. I, too, am a v-e-r-y sexual person (like xbrokenan) and I have found that there are other ways to have an intimate connection. It's not easy so it takes patience and understanding. The guys don't have ED by choice so do what you can to "be there" for a worthwhile guy who is struggling to get back to who he feels he once was.