Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group

Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.

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13 years too long

cantanymore
cantanymore

my husband has experienced ED since the before I even met him. Drugs used to help and we could have sex occasionally. I am not the type of woman who only wants to have a man go down on me or “assist his masterbation” I have done this for him our whole relationship consistently until the last couple years. He can no longer achieve any type of erection whole or partially. He wants to give him oral even though he can’t get even a little hard. I don’t know how much more I can take. He feels that I don’t love him find him attractive or anything. Part of this is true. I love him wholeheartedly or I would’ve already left. I am not attracted to him not only because of impotence but because he has nothing other than the ed drugs to try to fix it during our 15 year relationship. 



I kinda feel like he should leave me alone about it because I want INTERCOURSE and he knows that but instead I feel he makes me feel guilty and the bad guy because I make him feel insecure. 


I don’t believe he has ever really thought about or tried to understand the toll it has taken on my self esteem. 


I truly am beginning to feel resentment towards him. 

WorkerBee
WorkerBee
I wish was in this group back in march. I would have told you how I feel the exact same I bury myself in work so I don't have to feel it as much but today....today is tough.... mine as well does nothing about it...no doctors, no nothing...just me..lonely, working non stop, and feeling like I'm pretty repulsive...
Charles_Jones
Charles_Jones
Erectile dysfunction is a sexual disorder that is related to the blood circulation in the penis. Men with ED often find difficulty in getting or maintaining an erection enough for sexual intercourse. It’s mainly due to the restriction of blood flow to the penis, because of the narrowing of the blood vessels. Erectile dysfunction meds are phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors that help to increase the amount of nitric acid in the body. This helps in relaxing blood vessels and improving the blood flow, thus promoting healthy erections.
SIZEATE
SIZEATE
I know exactly how you feel. I am going out of my mind. 6 & half years with my partner & ED the whole time. He is quite happy to carry on getting his rocks off (eventually, even though its soft) whilst I dont even know its in. I have been supportive throughout but the last couple of years have taken their toll on me. I am not desired or worth any romance or love. He just wants to get in bed & squash it in somehow. I have tried so many times to tell him how I feel. He is just not interested in doing anything about it. He seems happy as long as he gets somewhere. Not worried about my feelings at all & now angry at me all the time because I dont want sex with him anymore. Surely I cant be expected to continue like this?
I dream constantly about sex. Do I just go find sex somewhere else? How do I make him do something about this problem?
CruizerBill
CruizerBill
To Sizeate, he MUST go see a doctor about his ED. Might be an easy fix of taking a blue pill or could be something much more difficult. However, he MUST see a doctor to fix this situation. I did 12 years ago and had immediate improvement.