HPV Support Group
Human papillomavirus is a diverse group of DNA-based viruses that infect the skin and mucous membranes of humans. More than 100 different human papillomavirus (HPV) types have been characterized. Some HPV types cause benign skin warts, or papillomas, for which the virus family is named. HPVs associated with the development of such "common warts" are transmitted...
So, I had a great first date with a girl tonight, but out of nowhere she talked about her dad having throat cancer that was caused by HPV. My heart sank; how the heck did this get brought up. Anyway, she started talking about how common it is and so on and so forth which made me feel better since I was totally vibing on this girl.
I'm thinking since she's had this close personal connection with HPV that there's no way in hell I'm going to have a chance with this girl. Either that, or she'll be understanding of it since she has first hand experience.
At any rate, I've had a couple episodes with GW (nothing major). However, I just had some frozen off last week, but have had them for nearly two years.
I'm trying not to think too far ahead of myself, but I'm not real sure that 'conversation' is going to go the way I hope it will. I guess if things go well with us, she might be understanding. I'm rambling at any rate. I just thought it was odd that HPV got brought up on a first date that's all.
I'm thinking since she's had this close personal connection with HPV that there's no way in hell I'm going to have a chance with this girl. Either that, or she'll be understanding of it since she has first hand experience.
At any rate, I've had a couple episodes with GW (nothing major). However, I just had some frozen off last week, but have had them for nearly two years.
I'm trying not to think too far ahead of myself, but I'm not real sure that 'conversation' is going to go the way I hope it will. I guess if things go well with us, she might be understanding. I'm rambling at any rate. I just thought it was odd that HPV got brought up on a first date that's all.
well, first off, I was actually pretty stunned when she started talking about her dad and HPV. She started saying how common it is, etc. and was a bit surprised when I reiterated some of her statements and then some.
You know, it's funny, I thought about that too (about her possibly having the virus), but when I brought up warts, she gave an 'ewww' so I don't know.
I'm going out with her again tonight, but the HPV is always in the back of my mind. I try not to think about it, but it's constantly there. I will get better over time, but hell, I've already had this for two years.
Well, we ended up going out for a second date and she invited me back to her place for a "PG" sleepover after the date. It was just that, "PG"--making out, nothing below the belt. I am really liking this girl and am wondering when I should tell her about my situation. Part of me wants to tell her right away, but at the same time, I'd like for her to get to know me better and vice versa. I did tell her I wanted to take it slow as I had just gotten out of a relationship a few months ago. I'm hoping this buys me some time.
I am extremely nervous about disclosing this to her as we connect on so many levels. I hope she is understanding.
Thanks for the well wishes; I'm keeping my fingers crossed.