Well I have high risk hpv no symptoms but I was told to be careful. I have a boyfriend and we do have a normal sex life. We planned for if there are symptoms "time off" is taken. But in reality this is a virus that most women in their lives will be exposed to. So there is no reason to feel dirty. You are not dirty. We are not dirty. If you had a wart on your foot (I have had this) would you feel dirty? No you would have it removed and then go about your day. I know this is hard to do (trust me I know it is hard) but try and think of it like that, go to the doctor to have it removed, or whatever treatment works and move about your day. I have no idea why there is still such a stigma attached to this virus but there shouldn't be. It is one of the most common viruses around. The problem is most people don't know they have it! So, take heart and I hope this made you feel better. And yes, a normal sex life is not only possible but recommended!

I definitely feel alot better about this and I know I am not alone in this battle of hpv. Thanks redvelvet :)

I've been in an active sexual relationship for two years. I exposed my bf to the virus and I'm not gonna lie we've had our ups and downs because of it. My only discomfort has been physical pain I felt when my warts weren't treated. For him, it was the same. He's dealt with NGU and I've been dealing with abnormal paps and those shenanigans.

I think one thing that is important is talking about what is going on with our bodies, understanding, and being comfortable with it. I know it took me about 6 months to fully accept my HPV and ever since then I've felt more comfortable around him and being with him.

Wish you the best!

Don't worry too much about it. Being as upfront and honest as you can is the only way to stop feeling bad about anything.

You want someone to accept you for you, not a reasonable facsimile of you.

So true...I find that its better to be upfront then he or she finds that I gave them a little gift of genital warts.

Glad you feel better! Some days I am reminded of it and I feel sad again. But then I remember my own advice and well most people will be exposed to it! Not that I am glad they are but it reminds me it is not something rare and it is nice to not be alone.

Plus random idea, I have heard that folic acid can help with the virus. I just started taking folic acid (along with an antioxidant vitamin) and I am hoping it will help. I'll report back to see if it did!

Yes, please do. I wish you the best of luck and look forward to hearing an update on whats working for you.

Redvelvet I know that its tough dealing with this stupid disease and I totally understand that you feel sad sometimes thinking about it. I too, can't get out of bed some days knowing I have this stupid curse. I was raped by a dude who knowingly gave this shit to me and I always tell myself I didn't deserve this. Sometimes good people get the shitty end of the stick. Look on the bright side, we both have partners that can support us with this disease when there is others out there who are worried that they won't be able to find someone who can accept them with this. Girl if your feeling down, I'm here to listen to you vent whenever.

Thank you and I appreciate it. I'm so sorry about what you are going through. But yes it is good to have a caring partner! :D

I'll let you know about the folic acid. I read a study on it and can't remember right now which study it was. I am also going to see a homeopathic (specifically ayurveda) practitioner for other health reasons (lungs) and hopefully that will help with all areas...it also seems many MD's here aren't too helpful when it comes to prevention versus only symptom treatment.

Take care!!!

I had or have hpv wart kind my husband has not had one sign or symptom and mine went away have hope a little bit of faith and use the treatments as directed things do get better

Guys are usually carriers n some don't show any symptoms. My bf has zero warts and i have all the nasty symptoms but his immune system is better then mine.

Thanks everyone...some days are tough but im happy that im not going through this alone..80% of the sexual active population will get hpv or be exposed to it...its just annoying and i hope one day they will find a cure