I went to a author speak meeting last night. This man wrote a book about helping people cross over. His mother was a medium, but never charged anyone. He said she was very spiritual. Some of the things he told us made sense to me and some, I wasn't too sure of. He said that he started having dreams and a very tall man clothed in brown, told him he had to help people to know that they are dead and to go on to heaven. He called it his job to do. He said that most people he helped, always were with their loved ones and were watching over them, when he would tell them they needed to move on. He even said he had seen Dillinger and that he was in a room by himself and had to decide to stay there or go back to earth and make things right with his soul. Some of those things were questionable.

The things he did talk about made sense. He told us, we were not to grieve forever. He said it made our loved ones sad to see us miserable. He said to go into a room, cry, scream, whatever it takes to get it our of your system, then to go and live life. He said self pity was the worst thing, that we were made to be happy. He said we are all Christians and we need to help each other. He said there was no hell, he had ever seen when on the other side. People that had done things they weren't too happy about, worked on those things to make their soul complete. Bad people that wanted to make it right, could be reincarnated, if they wanted to speed the process.

He told us stories that he had witnessed, real and in dreams. He's in his 80s and is working on his 3rd book. I guess you can take whatever you want from his book. He said that people that didn't believe in this stuff, wouldn't be there. He said we should be open to the possiblity of spirits around us.

Hope this comforts everyone. I do believe some of it, but not all.