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The highly sensitive person (or HSP) is someone who cares deeply about everything ... feels emotions with great intensity ... is highly conscientious ... has a rich and complex inner life ... is very intuitive ... is often creative in a variety of ways... is easily overwhelmed and/or overstimulated. A HSP needs lots of quiet time,space, and freedom. If this sounds...
I have a .gf well an ex gf. I have attempted to date her a couple different times.within a couple days I'm very sick and get overwhelmed emotionally. I feel what ever she feels she is violent alcoholIc cutter. she has an amazing aura that I'm very connected to.I am far from perfect but she turns everything both me. everything is my fault.we emotions get strong or loud I'm overwhelmed and can't speak sensibly.she freaks out and is very sensitive so I feel her emotions and she doesn't understand why I get so upset. she has attempted suicide so any talk of self abuse makes me panic. why do I keep staying. I can't change her or help her no matter how much I want to. she can be kind and giving and sweet but violent also.need help walking away cause I'm addicted
katzenmother
You may want to go to an Al-Anon meeting which is for people who are involved with alcoholics. I've been in several alcoholic relationships and I don't advise being intimately involved in one. Your girlfriend needs much help that is beyond anybody but a mental health professional. While it is hard cutting the strings chalk up this relationship as a learning experience and keep trucking w/o looking back. Easier said than done. Concentrate on yourself and your children. Being an HSP such a relationship will drain you in so many ways. Hope this helps and good luck!
deleted_user
I agree with everything katzenmother, has said. I will also add that seeing a counselor on your own would be helpful in seeking healthy individuals in your future and knowing what you want in your life.
elisheva14
I do understand what you are talking about as I worked many years with Spousal Abuse. No easy answers to your problem. You need to be strong and walk away from this relationship as it will be nothing but a heartache for you. This is a sick relationship. Go for help if you can not do it on your own. There is an addiction in a sick relationship as you feel she needs you. Perhaps the addiction is you believe you can help her: which is false thinking. This is talking to your EGO. Drinking and violence are a very bad mix. You can not cure her.
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