High School Stress Support Group
This community is dedicated to many issues that can appear in high school, including relationships, academic issues, questions about college and future plans, pressure from friends or parents, or anything else you want to chat about. High school can be stressful and overwhelming. This is a safe place to say what's on your mind and find support.
theres a guy in my class who keeps yelling across the room trying to get my attention.asking me to the county fair, asking me to go to his HOUSE, telling me that im really pretty,staring at me from across the room, getting his friends to ask me out for him, when i have to get through somewhere i have to push him out of the way because hes the one blocking me from getting out of the darn room or corner, he starts moaning out of random when he sees me or when i just cassualy push him away from me. what do i do and why the heck is he doing this. i know school is out in the united states but i need some closure on this and hes sure in the devil not going to tell me. so can some one give me a idea on why hes doing this cause hes been doing this sense 8th grade and im entering my sophmore year with him. please help me understand this. cause more guys are doing the same to me and im getting tired of it.
You should communicate your feelings to anyone who bothers you like this in a safe environment like a public area, but also in a way that others can't hear your conversation. You should communicate what you feel and your expectations. Say something like, "I expect to be treated nicely and I don't feel that the way you are treating me is nice. I would like it to stop".
If that doesn't work then what you are dealing with is a bully and that needs to be addressed differently. You should seek an adult with authority at the school, like a trusted teacher or counselor.