helping with the housework Community Group
this is a group for those of us who are challenged by getting things around the house done....come tell us what has to be done and get support to and motivation to get that task done and brag about what you have gotten done daily! It is hard for some of us to begin an easy chore but when we are doing them and get them done do you not feel like telling someone? I do!
I have been a little sidetracked from cleaning. I did go through a lot of my clothes and I now have a big bag of clothes to give to the church lady that goes to my brother's shop. I have been handwashing my clothes. My handyman is swamped so I am still going to the laundromat. I have been following yet another murder trial. It should be done soon as the State rested yesterday. As per my post, I went to the beach yesterday and I also stopped at the gym for a massage and I sat in the spa and finished my coffee from Wawa. Weeks ago, a cashier spilled my 24 ounce coffee all over the counter and my shirt so they took an incident report and sent me a $25 Wawa gift card. I almost have enough points for a free coffee as well. Yesterday I started feeling guilty about my friend who I am trying to get away from. She would have loved to have gone to the beach with me. She is on vacation with no plans and no car. I am totally burnt out from helping others. I am concentrating on myself. Last night when I went to bed, I had to remind myself of how this friend almost caused me to have a nervous breakdown. I get that funny feeling in my head when I think of it. I am sitting on my loveseat next to my cat who is in a deep sleep. I have to leave here at 12:40 p.m. I will be busy after my hair appointment. I thought about visiting my Aunt since I would be halfway there but I am not in the mood. She called me yesterday with all kinds of stories that aren't true. She comes up with some doozies! She is a great source of stress for me. I don't even listen to half the things she says, mostly because I can't understand what the hell she is saying. If you ever saw the movie that is called something like "Throw Mama From the Train", sometimes she sounds like the Mama. And she has a new saying of "I'll tell ya". Speaking of trains, this post has become a train wreck! I should be cleaning. I need to hydrate myself and get energized! This house isn't going to pick itself up!
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
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I invited Bill to have dinner with me last Sunday. He wasn't willing to drive 7 hours to mid Michigan and teased me with his beautiful ribs!!! So, of course I ate alone and had cedar salmon

I need a box from my basement now but I am in living room with TV on LMAD....then the local tv show that is talking local news people and some other stuff including weather and fun stuff generally. that one lasts half hour. I also need to get the grill grate out of my Weber kettle to run thru the dishwasher.
I am currently running laundry since I got home from work around 1pm....
Anyway I think you should take care of self like you seem to be with distance from aunt and friend.....no harm or fouls there it is self care....