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Over the past 3 yrs, I have joined a few dating sites. Im sure a lot of you know standard procedure on these sites, for those that do not read on
You fill out a summarized profile, describe interests, like dislikes, favorite music, activities etc etc.
Then they ask you to describe your ideal match.
Fair enough. I could list my own wants and desires here but thats not the point. Point is almost every profile that I have skimmed over, read or delved into to really get a grasp of what the lady is all about, have a common feature.
They all read, "I DO NOT DO DRAMA"
Ok so they don't like acting. LOL Why not?
What are some difinate deal breaking dramas?
whats your take on too much drama?
IMO drama can be made of every instance of life, I may not give a crap about a tabby getting smooshed on the highway, yet for another, that would be earth-shattering. I could care less about someones nose hairs being to long, yet another could go on for days debating whether or not to tell said sasquatchyetti/ nostril.
Life is full of drama,just diffferent perceptions of it. If someone says they dont do drama, do they not do life? JMO
any and all feedback will be used to compile guidelines for what not to devulge on dating profiles thanx in advance and while your at it have a great day;)
You fill out a summarized profile, describe interests, like dislikes, favorite music, activities etc etc.
Then they ask you to describe your ideal match.
Fair enough. I could list my own wants and desires here but thats not the point. Point is almost every profile that I have skimmed over, read or delved into to really get a grasp of what the lady is all about, have a common feature.
They all read, "I DO NOT DO DRAMA"
Ok so they don't like acting. LOL Why not?
What are some difinate deal breaking dramas?
whats your take on too much drama?
IMO drama can be made of every instance of life, I may not give a crap about a tabby getting smooshed on the highway, yet for another, that would be earth-shattering. I could care less about someones nose hairs being to long, yet another could go on for days debating whether or not to tell said sasquatchyetti/ nostril.
Life is full of drama,just diffferent perceptions of it. If someone says they dont do drama, do they not do life? JMO
any and all feedback will be used to compile guidelines for what not to devulge on dating profiles thanx in advance and while your at it have a great day;)
I am of the opinion that you can't live without a lil drama...
But as you said....saying you don't DO drama is like saying you live under a rock.. Drama is everywhere....it's how we deal with said drama and how we let it affect us personally that matters,
just my two cents
As far as drama, I agree, life is full of tragedy. how we handle tragedy and what each person's perception of tragedy is is a compatibility that needs to be talked about.
If they say "I DON'T DO DRAMA", I would challenge them, shoot 'em a message that says "OK...so what is your perception of drama?" You might get a bite there, or at the very least, an angry barb.
Me, I'd rather do comedy. Life is fraught with stress and adversity, but we can choose not to CREATE it. That's my take. My feeling is that it's healthy to approach each problem with love, understanding and a sense of humor. That helps ride out whatever comes.
.....I live in the real world and quite honestly I can't stand drama....if there are isses that need attention then be a person and resolve the issue..don't let it drag on and drag everyone in its path down......
Any woman who says "I DO NOT DO DRAMA" really means "DON'T BRING YOUR SHIT TO ME TO DEAL WITH" because if they don't "do drama" then they'll never cry at sad movies, never gossip with friends, never be angry at any bad behaviour, never be scared, never seek comfort, never have fun. People like that belong in a convent- and even THEY do drama, what with all their candles and prayers and poverty and obedience. A bit dramatic, don't you think? :)