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GZUSthug 02/07/2008

WHAT SIDE OF THE BED DO YOU SLEEP ON AND WHY?

DID IT CHANGE DEPENDING ON YOUR 'SO' OR PLACE THAT YOU LIVED?(OR BEDROOM SET UP)

deleted_user 02/07/2008

i sleep on the left side right now. I used to sleep on the right in our old apartment.

Goof 02/07/2008

when you walk into the bedroom...I am on the right...he is on the left...

I sleep there because it's closer to the door..I don't know..LOL

GZUSthug 02/07/2008

WITH MY FIRST WIFE, SHE SLEPT ON MY LEFT, AND WITH MY WIFE NOW SHE SLEEPS ON MY RIGHT. THIS ISN'T GOOD, BUT I'VE BEEN FURTHER AWAY FROM THE BEDROOM DOOR ON BOTH OCCASIONS, AND I THINK IT'S AN UNWRITTEN RULE THAT THE MAN SLEEPS CLOSER TO THE DOOR FOR PROTECTION. SO I JUST SUCK IN THAT REGUARD.
I JUST SLEEP NEXT TO THE ALARM CLOCK, AND THE OUTLET HAS ALWAYS BEEN TOWARDS THE BACK CORNER OF THE ROOM.

deleted_user 02/07/2008

G-you said what I was going to type...I like sleeping on the inside...with my man closest to the door, but if he's uncomfortable with that...I can compromise, and have on occasion.

deleted_user 02/07/2008

I sleep on the left side as you come in to the room. With having to drink almost 2 gallons of water daily, it's right next to the master bath. So, when i get up 3 times a night, all i have to do is swing my feet out and walk the two steps lol. Wheres the wife gets to walk all the way around the bed lol.

deleted_user 02/07/2008

I sleep on the right so when I cuddle my left hand is holding her breast. Now I am the only one in the bed.

deleted_user 02/07/2008

I sleep on the right it is just right for me. I don't feel right on the left hand side I don't feel safe.

deleted_user 02/07/2008

ok i'm on the right side, but have slept on both sides, usually sleep closest to the door, cuz when the pager goes off in middle of night and i'm on call can slip out with out much trouble LOL

deleted_user 02/08/2008

Alone I take over the entire bed but with company I sleep against the wall, so furthest from the door, that way I can push him out of bed to make me a cup of tea in the morning, LOL

tossedaside 02/08/2008

damnit I sleep on the couch

deleted_user 02/08/2008

I sleep on both sides, depending on where i fall. However she perfers the side next to the alarm clock. Fine by me, she gets up 30 minutes before i do. We are both equal distance from the door. But when the room was set up differnt, i was closet to door.

deleted_user 02/08/2008

On the left because the stbx wanted the right but now I take the whole bed unless I have a lady friend in bed with me then I let her decide.

Tray34 02/08/2008

I sleep on the left side.

deleted_user 02/08/2008

Hubby sleeps closest to the door. I'm on the right side of the bed.

deleted_user 02/08/2008

I sleep alone and I have always slept against a wall. I make sure where ever I live I push the bed up against the wall. Not too hard cuz it is a king sized bed and it usually takes up the majority of the bedroom anyways. Growing up I had a daybed and I think that contributes to the need for a wall.

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