Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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veggiequeen 04/17/2018

MEN.....a. all about the "packaging".... sexy skimpy lingerie for you to peel off her?

b. an anxious naked body all ready for you with nothing to delay your fun?

c sexy scented flavored warming lubes to further enhance your pleasure?

d. au natural... nothing to distract from original scents, feels, tastes?

Given the option.....do you prefer e. just oral f. just traditional intercourse g. a combo of both?

What do you like done to you? h. deep passionate (tongue swallowing) kisses? i. hands exploring and groping every inch of you?

j. tongues, lips all over you? k. everything?

What do you want to do to her? l. deep kisses? m. hands , fingers everywhere? n. tongues, lips everywhere? o. everything

LADIES.....a. have them spiffed up (or actually minimal) and ready for you to undress them?

b. the naked bodies all ready to go, no distractions?

c.scented, flavored warming lubes to enhance your fun?

d. au natural...... original scents, feels and tastes ?

Given the option do you prefer e. just oral? f. just traditional intercourse? g. a combo of both?

What do you like done to you? h. deep passionate (tongue swallowing) kisses i.hands, fingers exploring and groping every inch of you?

j. tongues, lips all over you? k. everything?

What do you want to do to him? l. deep kisses? m. hands feeling, groping everywhere? n.tongues, lips everywhere? o. everything?

FOR BOTH..... S. romantic, passionate sex T. tender basic vanilla sex

JUST CURIOUS.....

FYI... for me...

A C G K O S

Have fun!

yorman1 04/17/2018

Wow Veggie, you will find... ALL of us like you would find a smorgasbord. Lol...men are just as complicated as women if not more so....Don't try to figure it out enjoy it...To simply fie it break it into three areas...,A) sometimes. It's just cuddling..... B) sometimes its making love, bring in the soft music, scented candles, lingerie (on both parties)some toys. Etc... C) sometimes just a good hard fuck, over the sofa, or seat in car, on the kitchen counter...I think you get the point....that simplifies all the other categories.... Don't stress yourself out. be open and vocal about your wants and needs. If you don't get it move on.....:-)

veggiequeen 04/17/2018

being out of the "dating world" (hell, out of the real world) for so long, I am CURIOUS what everybody wants and is doing ? I sometimes am surprised, but then, i never did have that smorgasbord before. i think i had the pauper's special with bare minimum (NO endless possibilities... hence the desire for it all now)

finallyawakenow 04/17/2018

I like au natural! Her scent everywhere. Start by kissing her neck while I’m caressing everywhere and moving down to her breasts hiden naked under the thin sheets. Pulling them back to tease the hardening nipples with my teeth and tongue. While my hands slid down between her legs. Which open with a soft moan. Kissing my way down until I am lying between them. Exploring her inner thighs with my finger tips as my tongue slowly starts to taste her growing wetness. My hands are cupping both breasts now as the nipples are pressed between my fingers. Mouth covering her pussy as I ache from my hardness. Is this what you are after queen. Fun.

gregsbaby 04/17/2018

Aww vq we have to find you a man and soon before you do pounce on any man walking down the street lol!

Now you know people are different and not the same things will turn each other on. Like for me all the hubz to be has to do is talk and I melt like butter *panting heavily* He's got one of those Barry White voices but softer! I love your list, especially T lol! For me it's always going to be vanilla since I'm chocolate :P

veggiequeen 04/17/2018

@finallyawakenow.... Yes.... that is what I want ..... fun.

finallyawakenow 04/17/2018

Maybe I will finish the story for you later! I’m alone tonight, wink

rosecandy 04/18/2018

Honestly, it depends on the mood! I'm usually just on a different planet when it comes to sex, like... lose track of time, do it all, blow each other's minds, bring it all inside and between until everything in the frickin universe collapses down into one particle between you that explodes and then just melts passion... and then you talk for an hour or two and make quesadillas or something.

That being said, I haven't had sex in over two years.

I'm very frustrated lol.

Tigerhound1967 04/26/2018

My wife and I have been trying to spice things up. One thing we've started trying is sexting, even if we are in the same room. Maybe I propose a scenario, and we take.turns taking things step by step through our minds, others she will send pics she has taken earlier to get "MY IMPRESSION" it has made for interesting foreplay before we even think about how or where we go next

veggiequeen 04/28/2018

@tigerhound... I do love that idea. As I currently have no live, willing participant, I have been chatting and doing that to some extent with another . It is kind of exciting to get both involved using those vivid imaginations and sharing more insight as to where you do want things to go.

koolman 05/22/2018

Aside from physical attributes? Intelligence, a kinky mind, a sexual vocabulary, a woman who likes to talk dirty, and a woman who can dance sexy.

veggiequeen 06/07/2018

@ guy with a question... I am a poor deprived soul. was a late bloomer (Didn't feel I deserved a life of my own so I would waste 20 years of my life trying to care for dysfunctional, abusive family) I went out on my own at 35. (Never had sex with anyone before then. Was with 2 others , both fwb before stbx. All 3 were 5 minute men)

I have gone the past 1o plus years with no anything. I tried simply going through the motions, but something happened. Things got all stirred up again. I decided I want desperately to step back into life again ALL of it.

In answer to your question... I want it all... the combo. I want someone who does want me as I do him... to be able to explore every inch of each other with hands, lips, tongues... and I want the passion and the romance. I have settled for bare minimum, basic vanilla for the brief window i did get any sex. As I am growing a bit older and wiser... I have an incredible curiosity now . All can tell you, I will boldly say or ask what's on my mind. I have been exploring all that I have been missing (likes, dislikes, positions, fetishes....) I have come across more things i would love to try both in life and sex. Bare in mind I have also come across some very bizarre things that are definitely TMI... but , hey, inquisitive minds wanna know. lol

PS Aren't you sorry you asked???? lol

Bedwetter 06/13/2018

It turns me on when I feel being desired.
I love tongue and fingers exploring me everywhere

Msteele4555 07/01/2018

A bustier, garters and a very evil grin.

koolman 07/22/2018

It's largely about the five physical senses. I enjoy a kinky mind and dirty talk, a sexually explicit vocabulary, too.

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