Healthy Sex Support Group
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SO this morning we have a bit of an uppity up issue, nothings happening and I know my guys feeling badlike trying to get a marshmallow in a letterbox !!! We had been at it for like two hours with little naps
then we start again, by which time I am so desperate to be satisfied after two hours of foreplay as he is too Im sure
.so I try a massage with some nice oil, all over, to take his mind off things for a bithe seems to be enjoying itwe are kissing and being loving.
then he says we need a bit of a snooze.
half hour later.
he wakes upsays suck me off. just suck me off please.
I sayohI thought it would be good to share( up and at it now, rock hard!)he says: I don't care about that, just suck me off.
now I feel like dirt.
used, discarded.
He's happy. He came well.
Leaving me sad.
What the heck was that all about!!!?
then we start again, by which time I am so desperate to be satisfied after two hours of foreplay as he is too Im sure
.so I try a massage with some nice oil, all over, to take his mind off things for a bithe seems to be enjoying itwe are kissing and being loving.
then he says we need a bit of a snooze.
half hour later.
he wakes upsays suck me off. just suck me off please.
I sayohI thought it would be good to share( up and at it now, rock hard!)he says: I don't care about that, just suck me off.
now I feel like dirt.
used, discarded.
He's happy. He came well.
Leaving me sad.
What the heck was that all about!!!?
He deserved a good slap for that IMHO. I can understand being frustrated after a couple of hours, but so were you!
NOT cool!
everything is about him.
always.
siiigh!
This is what I think may be happening in yr situation; Your partner was getting traumatized by the fact that there was softness during the insertion, so he is wanting to avoid that experience again, of the marshmallow in the letter-box anyway he can. Thus, once he was hard, he just wanted head, which takes no insertion whats so ever. This kindof trauma lead to more probs with insertion. It has now become a cycle O
We talked about it this morning.he refused to let me give him oral! Silly man! I should say, its the only way he can cum.im happy to oblige but it was the barking of orders and the lack of respect and consideration to me.
I guess I can get my own back. Think he needs a jolly good spanking!!!
I will move on after 15 yrs of 'marriage' and be happy once again!
Best wishes! I'm new to this site and Thanks for letting me rant!