Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I'm dying to have intercourse. Stimulating myself is no longer enough. I can't take being alone any longer and sex toys to me are extremely ineffective as I unfortunately figured out from experience. I also have very cruddy orgasms that last no more than one second, literally. Despite I'm only 19, I can't stand being lonely and without a mate anymore. It had led me to depression, despair, boredom, and sadness. All I have to be with are two plushies, a wolf and a dolphin, I sleep with, talk with, and even gave them names. I also have so many fetishes I seriously doubt any woman would ever want to be with me. I would be way too awkward and kinky. If I don't romp anyone any time soon I'll neuter myself and maybe put a bullet in my head. The stress, temptation, despair, loneliness, and sadness is killing me. I can't take living without a mate similar to me anymore! Unfortunately, my family will get in the way of any hookups saying I need to start out with acquaintances and gradually work my way up from there. I'm out of hope and I don't know what to do anymore! I don't even know what love is, I can't define it, I've never felt it, I'm having a difficult time understanding what in the Universe it even means. Help me or else I'll feel life is not worth living anymore.
Now, if your parents say 'take it slow' just tell them you're taking it slow, and shag the girlfriend (or boyfriend) as much as you can get away with. I don't know anyone who's made it to 20 without just plain learning to lie to their parents. Parents are old. Parents are fogeys. This isn't a world of 'wait till you find someone special' any more. 'someone special' is now defined as 'someone who will shag me'. LOL.
Don't listen to the rules. You're a millennial - make new rules that apply to your generation! As to kinks, there are people getting themselves dressed up in animal costumes shagging each other right now. Anything goes man. There is no need to be miserable. You just need to join the kind of group that you are interested in.
How terrified must they have been? And yet they did it.
Driving is one of those things that are terrifying when you can't do it, but nto terrifying when you can. And most of the terror is if you drive slower than other cars. Driving at the same speed as other cars on the road with you will make sense of how it all works.
Get a driving instructor, get the lessons. Don't let your fear stop you. Don't let your fear stop you from anything. Work out what you want and go towards it. Don't live a life shying away from what you fear.
They are 2 diff ways of looking at reality: choosing what you want and draggin yourself towards it by hook or by crook - or always running, always afraid, shying away from the biggest terror until you find yourself curled up in a ball in a corner, hemmed in like a stalemated king.
You gotta live. You're 19. Far to young to pour yourself in concrete. Get the licence. Do it.