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Y'know, the "type" you find most physically attractive, the type that really gets your motor running.
For me, I have to confess, I like 'em slender. Not necessarily the body of an underage child, but fairly slender. I find it easy and stimulating on the eyes. I like a woman who has lean, muscular legs, a tight ass, B cup to C cup tits, pretty face, big, bright eyes that see right through me, straight brown auburn or black brunette hair, definitely exotic and alluring. Of course, I like Asians.
I also like Brazilians who have the above characteristics, a golden brown tan plus brown hair with sun-bleached blonde streaks...that is so sexy...
I'm open to blondes as well. Blondes are cute.
Red-heads, aside from the fact that many are slender, I don't know why, don't really do anything for me. Maybe it's because I too am part Irish, so there's a bit too much familiarity there.
I can't wait to hear what the ladies like in the fellas.
Emotionally? A whole 'nother ball game, and of course equally important too. I like a woman who is multi-facetted, who can think and feel on a lot of different levels, is highly intelligent, can discuss anything and everything without getting "offended" at some of my cruder comments, helps me laugh as laughs at my jokes, is sweet person but has some "rough edges" (perhaps this contradicts "not easily offended", OK she can have some thresholds that I dare not cross), is of course a bit of a sex freak...
For me, I have to confess, I like 'em slender. Not necessarily the body of an underage child, but fairly slender. I find it easy and stimulating on the eyes. I like a woman who has lean, muscular legs, a tight ass, B cup to C cup tits, pretty face, big, bright eyes that see right through me, straight brown auburn or black brunette hair, definitely exotic and alluring. Of course, I like Asians.
I also like Brazilians who have the above characteristics, a golden brown tan plus brown hair with sun-bleached blonde streaks...that is so sexy...
I'm open to blondes as well. Blondes are cute.
Red-heads, aside from the fact that many are slender, I don't know why, don't really do anything for me. Maybe it's because I too am part Irish, so there's a bit too much familiarity there.
I can't wait to hear what the ladies like in the fellas.
Emotionally? A whole 'nother ball game, and of course equally important too. I like a woman who is multi-facetted, who can think and feel on a lot of different levels, is highly intelligent, can discuss anything and everything without getting "offended" at some of my cruder comments, helps me laugh as laughs at my jokes, is sweet person but has some "rough edges" (perhaps this contradicts "not easily offended", OK she can have some thresholds that I dare not cross), is of course a bit of a sex freak...
Less than six foot tall, because tall people intimidate the HELL out of me. With preferrably dark hair and eyes. Great smile and laugh. MUST be witty, and quick on their feet. Accent a PLUS. Must like to laugh, and have the ability to laugh and poke fun at themselves. Have a job, because I'm not supporting anyone. Must like my dog, and she must like you.
Must know when to leave me the hell alone, and accept the fact that if you ask me a question, I *will* answer. Sometimes, I may hedge the response, or put thought into it before answering, but I will never not answer eventually. Care enough sometimes to ask me twice. I can fluff a bullshit response once, but never twice.
Be interesting, well read and be able to contribute decently to a conversation, but be smart enough to know when it's time to stop making answers up and just say you don't know.
Be able to listen to my insane rants, which are totally random and can go off on the strangest of tangents, at the oddest moments. Must be able to display your own random rants.
Must realize that if I "LIKE" someone, I want to be with them, but that I do have way too much stuff on the go, and will always take on way more than I can handle. I will make time, and do anything for someone if I care about them.
They need to "get" the fact that my kids are just that. Mine. Offer an opinion, but they do not need a 'new daddy", no matter how much I joke about it. Get the fact if anyone looks at my kids cross eyed, I will swiftly punch them in the mouth.
Stand up for me sometimes. I'm a pretty tough broad, but sometimes, those 'warm and fuzzies" you get from someone showing they care is a nice thing.
Oh - and know how to bar-b-q. I am a carnivore, but the ceremonial lighting of the BBQ scares the crap out of me.
Physically, I like redheads or brunettes, small framed, tight, cute little butt, small boobies, someone who likes to be adventurous in bed and has no problem taking the initiative when it comes to making the first move for sex. (Maybe, tie ME down) Being able to cum multiple times is a turn-on for me.
it's a toss up.
no wait.. Shamar Moore.......... Criminal Minds.... back to the Young and the Restless ' Days? Malcom?
hands down...... SHAMAR.
and yes, my husband of 29 years knows it.
cause it's just silly.
i do kind of really love Adam and Blake and Shamar though.
Sarcastic, witty, playful sense of humor. Intelligent, intellectually curious, and adventurous. Must like skiing and backpacking. Should be able to kill off multiple interesting books in a month. Knowing the difference between MBC and RDW, and how to play them, is a plus, but by no means required.
I am married, and my husband prefers tall, curvy brunettes. He loves me.
I don't really have a physical type. I used to prefer blue eyed men with lighter complexions, but lately darker men seem attractive, too. I find shorter men attractive if they are stocky with broad shoulders and I like tall men to have a smaller frame. I like guys with big eyes and a face that is artistic and sensitive but not feminine, if that makes sense.
Dsf95, sounds like you're pretty much my brother's type, and clearly, your husband's. Different men have different tastes, they're as varied as we are. Itson's comment was a playful poke in my direction.