Healthy Sex Support Group

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GZUSthug 04/11/2009

TO HAVING THREESOME RELATIONS?

EVERYONE TALKS ABOUT THE RULES AND COMMUNICATING THE RULES, SO...

WHAT ARE YOUR RULES TO HAVING A THREESOME, OR HOW DO YOU CHOOSE WHICH PARTNER TO HAVE A THREESOME WITH?

deleted_user 04/11/2009

LOL...just don't tell the third person.....

deleted_user 04/11/2009

Gzus I have said it before and gonna say it again Honesty above all else and if everyone else is honest then take the plunge.

GZUSthug 04/11/2009

I'M STILL LOOKING FOR THE POOL.LMAO.

deleted_user 04/11/2009

You are making me laugh dammit . . . .stop that

Seriously some can't handle the 3some thing and agree only to it to suit their partner. Thats a mistake. Be fucking honest I mean this is your life we are talking about. If its going to bother you that your partner is fucking someone else better to speak up before it happens. I don't have an issue with it tho seeing them kiss someone else does not sit with me well. Sex is one thing - kissing is to me so much more intimate.

vickybea 04/11/2009

my rule it would only happen if it was with another guy, guess l'll have a long wait then lol

deleted_user 04/11/2009

Our rules were that they have to be a stranger or not so important friend. And that my wfe is the center of attention at ALL TIMES. Plus she always picked the other. (even though we only did it once that was a rule that I knew was right-on) Last is if yoou don't get off before she(your wife or SO) then forget about it and be happy with what you got! Sorry is a fatasy and when the real thing happens you have to do it with a grounded mindset...makes it hard to stay hard...REALLY!

deleted_user 04/11/2009

DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ABOUT RULES...

3SOMES ARE OFF LIMITS FOR US

I WONT LIE IM A JEALOUS BITCH AND IM THE ONLY ONE WHO SHOULD BE FUCKING AND SUCKING PERIOD

koolman 04/12/2009

You can make up the rules, but they'll get violated anyway.

All you can say is "I like my wife/SO. I don't love you." OR (without putting too fine a point on it) "You're just a piece of ass."

And then HOPE your wife/SO feels the same way.

deleted_user 04/12/2009

Unfortunately, threesomes aren't usually like the really good movies, and someone usually ends up getting slightly left out of the whole situation.

God forbid it's your partner, because that would cause the relationship to go to hell.

GZUSthug 04/13/2009

BUMP

kidsintowe03 04/13/2009

well, I don't know about any other rules except what SHOULD be rule #1.

If you are in a serious relationship with them...DON'T do it. PERIOD.

anything else is inviting trouble.

GZUSthug 04/13/2009

NEVERMIND. FUCK THE RULES.

koolman 04/13/2009

Fuck the rules: Then just be into the sex and don't be in love with anybody.

deleted_user 04/13/2009

I am gonna disagree here. There are plenty of people that make this work not only just as having it happen once in awhile to those that make it work as a lifestyle that they live daily and are happily married and stay happily married for years into old age.

BUT for most of society it will ruin a replationship in the end. Just be careful and think awfully hard as to why you feel the need to do it before it actually is done

jimthzz 04/13/2009

Statistically speaking, having a threesome while in a marriage dooms the marriage.

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