Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I have been married for 18 years and have not had sex for over two years now.
As men get older, they lose their sex drive and get more physically undesirable. Same with women. It's just life. If you're both not already on some kind of exercise program, exercise helps get those juices flowing, and is good for health in general. Make an issue of this and how you feel to your mate, and see what can be done.
1) Physical aliment
2) Mental aliment(Stress etc..)
3) New Meds
4) Lack of communication.
As an example I can point to my SIL - she has not slept with her husband in over 3 years! Her reason - He pissed her off at our daughter's wedding reception and he refuses to see her point on WHY she got pissed off.
Good luck with your situation - for your sake I hope you get it figured out - an 18 year relationship is tough to toss aside for all parties involved.