My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 years. We've had times where we would have sex often then have those dry spells where work, tiredness, etc would get in the way. Last year, I noticed we just weren't having sex at all unless I initiated it. There such a severe lack or romance and I would find that I wasn't in the mood often. So I tried to talk to him about it. We went to a bar because I needed a drink in me first because this just felt foreign to me to have to talk about. Everything was so natural before. It didn't go over well. Then after another 2 months of nothing I finally got too frustrated and exploded asking point blank, why are we not having sex anymore. We discussed it and came to a resonable conclusion to work on the roamance. That didn't work either. Now, this year I've been training for a marathon and have been running long miles every week. I put it off and we haven't had sex in a long while but now after everything I've tried....I think I'm okay with it. I've tried to explain it to him but he still never initiates and I don't want to try anymore. Is there anything else I can do?