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So I had a date on Saturday. It went really well. I can tell that I made one hell of an impression on her and I can tell that she likes me (I don't take hints well and she made it very obvious).
We did kiss but nothing more.
She is very nice but I am not sure about her. She does talk a lot and she seems to be pretty upfront with things.
She does have some features on her that are cute. The odd thing is that I can't say for sure if I find her attractive or not though. I guess that is because that she is a little different from my normal type that I date. I tend to date athletic type women as I am very active and I do a lot of athletic things. This girl is trying to be more active and she is attempting to loose more weight.
Then again this was a first date so we will see where it goes from here.
The other odd thing was that I already got the speech that she isn't going to do some things until she has a ring on her finger and she isn't ready to have a ring on her finger for a while. I thought that was odd to hear on a first date and I had no intention of trying anything further on the date.
We shall see how it goes.
We did kiss but nothing more.
She is very nice but I am not sure about her. She does talk a lot and she seems to be pretty upfront with things.
She does have some features on her that are cute. The odd thing is that I can't say for sure if I find her attractive or not though. I guess that is because that she is a little different from my normal type that I date. I tend to date athletic type women as I am very active and I do a lot of athletic things. This girl is trying to be more active and she is attempting to loose more weight.
Then again this was a first date so we will see where it goes from here.
The other odd thing was that I already got the speech that she isn't going to do some things until she has a ring on her finger and she isn't ready to have a ring on her finger for a while. I thought that was odd to hear on a first date and I had no intention of trying anything further on the date.
We shall see how it goes.
Personally, I'd like to have someone be really upfront about their expectations, right from the git go!!! Helps separate the wheat from the chaff!!!
But I am going to be honest with you about the weight thing. If you have real issues about weight. I am saying this as a full-figured woman. My weight has flucuated having had a difficult childhood, a Mom that doesn't love me or my sisters, loosing my Dad at an early age, my Husband dying, being in an abusive relationship, and having had back surgeries. I know when I am happier I loose some weight but I will never be skinny. I wouldn't want a man to waste his time or mine if he has real issues with weight. What if she gains 10#... would you kick her to the curb or be disgusted? I think you would be better off finding a real thin woman. Please don't take it wrong... it is just my .02. I hope you find what you are looking for.
The good thing is that I am not in a hurry to get into anything. This is one of the first times where I have decided not to try to figure things out right now and just to see where they lead. I have no idea where this will go and that is okay. I think that I have rushed into things in the past and that has caused me issues down the road.