im a 38 DD. possibly bigger since my bras are pretty snug . I dont have any problems with men not approaching me. in fact id say more a problem with too many approaches.
I dont have any real advice for you, just wanted to let u know ita probably not the boobies lol

Maybe I'm just ugly. Never really thought so but I can't think of anything else

Admittedly there are men who are shallow enough to ignore a woman simply based on her looks. Sad but very true. I cannot see your pictures to be able to tell one way or another if you are physically attractive or not. But not all men are so shallow. We look at the whole package just like women do and you lack self confidence or self esteem it will show through. It may come across as fear but it does come across. It is important for you to realize that you don't need a man in order to be happy. May I ask, what do you do for a living? Are you in school? What type of man are you looking for? What are you doing to prepare yourself for marriage? Why do you want a man? This is a great place for you to start.

Do you smile, make eye contact with people and appear to be a happy person in general?

No I have a very hard time with eye contact. I'm very shy in real life. Must be my downfall

Intimidated by breasts hhhmmm ? maybe a woman would be,

I understand your shyness, eye contact is important though,

also a smile even a small smile may help,

and of course small talk , just bs about the neighbors stolen dog or the weather is a good start.
do remember the guys might be shy too.
ALSO if you're 1 of them women that wear a ring on the weddin finger, that might be your 'stop' sign too.!
up until about 5 yrs ago, I didn't know the centuries old weddin finger with a ring DOESN'T mean married anymore.
I've had friends of women ask why I wasn't interested about 12 yrs ago.lol
huh ? took awhile but I thought back, they had rings on that finger.
I respected that. & still do.

Do you always wait on guys to make the 1st move?
not tradition anymore either.

also how do you feel about yourself now ? that's important too.

Sometimes when I'm at the store I'll see a cute guy and kinda I don't know. Check him out but when he looks at me it's like "oh god look busy" and I mess around with things in my cart. I'm about the shyest person you can meet and normally don't speak unless someone starts the conversation first... Then I can be a chatter box. I find it hard to make eye contact with strangers and I normally make quick eye contact and smile then look back down at my feet. I'm just awkward...

Hi! There, I approached you...and would do so in person.

you need need to find a way to relax some, he may be just as nervous or sense your nervousnos and take it the wrong way.

I understand and Know what your going through, I was that way for most of my life.

I think your shyness is coming off as "please don't talk to me". Maybe try smiling a little more and hold the head up and own it girl! If anything your tatas should make you more popular ;) but if you look like you don't want to be talked to, you won't get talked to.

It's all in the way you perceive things. If you smile, look people in the eye and say hi. People usually respond the same way.

If you stand there like a lump (not trying to be blunt) no one is going to talk to you.

I don't get approached either, Bonnie. I can be reserved at first, so most people never see beyond that. And that smile and look at the floor thing ? Yup, that was me, too! I only say "was" because now I have somebody and don't look around at guys anymore to see if they're noticing me. But from what I've heard confidence is the key! Fake it until you believe it!

When I was younger I was painfully shy. Someone told me that people perceived my shyness as being snob. I had absolutely no idea! But now I can see why that is even though the complete opposite was true. I've since come out of my shell. I make friends quickly. And since I've been more like this, I get approached a lot more. I'm no beauty queen, I have a lot of weight to lose, but the personality shining does draw people in. If you can work on not being so shy, and increase your self esteem, you'll be batting them away with a stick! :)

Hahah I guess I really need to work on my confidence then I really have been trying. Even flirted with this guy ealier this week and he smiled and flirted back I was in serious shock. Haha