yeah i've seen that poor guy was soooo nervous felt sorry for him

Performance Anxiety. Normal, don't stress about it.

It's never happened to me, but I don't have a penis!

Seriously though, its totally normal.

That's funny .. war guppy .. so wishin I would have said that .. lol ..

i have been so nervous that i couldn't get hard... it is usually when i start to care for someone, and then i have all this pressure i put on myself that when the time comes for us to have sex... i can mentally give myself temporary ED

Thank you all! I'm glad to know that it can be common. I feel alot better now. It's a terrible feeling to think that you might turn a guy off! He lives out of town so we haven't tried it again yet but he swears it was because he was so nervous and that he was only concerened about pleasing me. I guess I will give him another chance than. lol But if it happens again I'm going to have a hard time not thinking it was something to do with me.

There are other ways to make up for it Jos, and as he gets more comfortable with you and sees you enjoying the other things he has to offer in the bedroom, he'll relax and then you'll both wonder what the problem was all about... good luck and don't give him too hard a time (pun not intended)

I agree Mothman!
He still made sure I was pleased! I'm hoping to give him a very hard time someday! pun intended lol!

I have had that problem from medications including norytrpteline.

It happens. Just give him some time ot get over being nervous. Invite him to eat at the Y, that always got me up even when I was too tired to get up. It is not your fault. You look like a very pretty sexy woman and you could turn on anyone. That may be one reason he is so nervous, because you are so pretty.

i know that one hting that helped me with my girlfriend.. was that... well, i got nerous and all that after we had been messing around for a few weeks, and then "the night" and my pilot wouldn't get on the plane... if you catch my drift... well, the next time we were together, she played it cool, we didn't even mention sex, and then next thing i knew, she basically jumped my bones!
that did the trick. all the pressure was off. Granted, there was no foreplay, but my nervousness was gone and i was completely in the moment.

ya, i was watching foursome on playboy. he was so nervious to have sex infront of everyone it just didn't happen for the poor guy. your good!!!!!

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