Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I was married 22 yrs to a sexually boring man. We could go 9 months, and I never missed it. I bought the 'Joy of Sex' and he had no use for it.
Then, reunited with my ex from college, sparks flew, and 2 yrs later, I'm divorced (not because of him - ex is an a-hole), he was, wife called it off, but we are still together.
My boyfriend has taken me to adult stores, strip clubs and even buys me books on how to better my experience. Even looked through my 'Joy of Sex' book and pointed out all the things we've done.
He is giving me everything I ever wanted.
But, I question, why is he so worried that he's not enough?
Then, reunited with my ex from college, sparks flew, and 2 yrs later, I'm divorced (not because of him - ex is an a-hole), he was, wife called it off, but we are still together.
My boyfriend has taken me to adult stores, strip clubs and even buys me books on how to better my experience. Even looked through my 'Joy of Sex' book and pointed out all the things we've done.
He is giving me everything I ever wanted.
But, I question, why is he so worried that he's not enough?
H and I always had sex toys and sexual devices, my partner and I have have a lot of sex stuff but it's not because we don't feel we're enough for each other, we just both enjoy having all kinds of sexual experiences and sex toys/devices is some of the things we enjoy using on each other.
He's turned me on to so much, and maybe, who know's.
He does feel he can't provide me everything I need.
When I say he does, he just comments that I put up with obligatory sex during my marriage, I don't know what it is to feel like a woman.
I enjoy everything, but wonder if I enjoy it too much!
Why men can't trust, amazes me!
I do tell my BF how I am feeling, or how it felt, and he just still feels he didn't do his best.
It's confusing, and it takes a lot to talk about this.
I am amazed we've never been arrested. I drive around town, think about my ex, totally want to brag about where, when and how, but it's our secret, and that makes it special.
My boyfriend turned me on to another lifestyle, and feeling, I've never had. Being on the brink of menopause, where so many women seem to shut down (his wife), I'm more alive than I ever was.
If I had known this was how a woman was supposed to feel, I would have divorced years ago.