Healthy Sex Support Group
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Ok, first off I want to make it clear, this is in no way a problem for me. I really enjoy being with this girl and the sex is pretty good and we both really enjoy each other's company.
Also, I have noticed that my penis seems to have grown a little in the last year or so and until two nights ago neither of us had had sex in about a year. We've been on and off dating for about a month and the first night we had sex, she said she was a little afraid that my penis might be too big but she really wanted to try. Sure enough, I couldn't get all the way in her. I get about 3/4ths of the way in before I feel resistance. At the time I assumed I had had too much alcohol and couldn't get a full erection but we both had fun anyways.
The second night, I didn't have too much of any substance. I knew we'd end up sleeping together and probably end up having sex again and sure enough, the second time even with a full erection I couldn't get all the way in her. I've had sex before and I have never had this happen. She's the tightest woman I've ever had sex with, so much so that I had to ask if she was a virgin. I'm pretty confident that she's not though and she said no.
Yes, my penis is a decent size and kind of thick when fully erect but like I said, I've never had that happen before. Obviously, we need lube and next chance I get I'm picking up! I thought this was the sort of thing that only happened in pornos. Has anyone else had this happen? Don't get me wrong, it was pretty pleasurable and I really like it that she's that tight down there. I'm just curious if anyone here has any input.
Also, I have noticed that my penis seems to have grown a little in the last year or so and until two nights ago neither of us had had sex in about a year. We've been on and off dating for about a month and the first night we had sex, she said she was a little afraid that my penis might be too big but she really wanted to try. Sure enough, I couldn't get all the way in her. I get about 3/4ths of the way in before I feel resistance. At the time I assumed I had had too much alcohol and couldn't get a full erection but we both had fun anyways.
The second night, I didn't have too much of any substance. I knew we'd end up sleeping together and probably end up having sex again and sure enough, the second time even with a full erection I couldn't get all the way in her. I've had sex before and I have never had this happen. She's the tightest woman I've ever had sex with, so much so that I had to ask if she was a virgin. I'm pretty confident that she's not though and she said no.
Yes, my penis is a decent size and kind of thick when fully erect but like I said, I've never had that happen before. Obviously, we need lube and next chance I get I'm picking up! I thought this was the sort of thing that only happened in pornos. Has anyone else had this happen? Don't get me wrong, it was pretty pleasurable and I really like it that she's that tight down there. I'm just curious if anyone here has any input.
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but the question is how long the penis is because my penis is not that long that I cannot fit all the way in...it is thicker I think but I do not hit 7in....add to that the vagina being shorter than maybe a ten inch dick it could be that your too long for her and it is hitting the cervix ??
Last time I actually measured myself I was almost exactly 7inches but it looks and feels bigger now, I'd guess maybe a little under 7.5? Idk how or why it grew, I'm 27! She's a few years older than me.
Sometimes a female's Hymen is too thick. Normally after first time this is gone because it is very thin. A GYN does a surgery called Hymenectomy if the lady is having pain or getting repeat infections. Many times the opening is no larger than the end of a pencil.
This you-tube link explains the procedure: http://www.ask.com/youtube?q=what+is+Hymenectomy&v=pRuf4v5uuzg&qsrc=472
Share the link with her and hopefully she will check it out.
Take your time and use lots of lube!!!!
It's not a bad thing if she can't take every inch of you, as long as you are giving each other pleasure and it doesn't hurt her 3/4 of your cock might be all she needs...lol
Also, use a condom with lots of lube. This will make for nice slip-and-slide entry especially if she's a little dry at first.
Practice makes perfect! Try, try again! The two of you will get your groove on again.
Over time, she will stretch out and conform to your member. Just be gentle as first and take it slow. I think as time goes on, she will feel comfortable with it.
But if you guys ever break up, the next guy with an average sized penis, may have some big shoes to fill.
Had a couple bfs with rather large penises.
After some time it will eventually stretch out but some positions will still be limiting. The best thing that work for me was to let me advance at my own pace and start slow.
Good luck!