What type of pain were you experiencing?

it was a small...pressure? Like in my stomach or at least thats how it felt. Im not exactly sure how to explain it but it hurt a little bit but only if he was in all the way.

Sounds like he's probably hitting your cervix which isn't always pleasurable. Try different positions and even just the positioning of your and/or his body a little might help.

You need to communicate with him on the various positions that are painful. He just can't go slamming it in. He should be able to feel the added resistance when touching the cervix, and should back off a little. I can feel it, especially when the woman is in the doggie position.

Thanks guys. I'll let him know when im in pain and maybe we can find a better position :)
I know his intention isnt to hurt me

Increase foreplay time and experiment with positions. Some guys are just naturally lucky like him lol.

Mine's 9" too!!! It's probably one of the reasons I never had sex with Asian honey. She felt that massive trouser snake and it scared the hell out of her.

He's going to have to ease that thing in just a few inches...be careful how hard he pumps...and use massive globs of lube.

After the first time hes started taking his time with it. Hes really into foreplay so its all good. I've never been with a guy that big and It scared me at first, I told him and he was like "dont be afraid, its not out to hurt you"
Its gotten better after we tried other positions :) Im not nearly as nervous anymore thanks for all the advice :)

Too Small! I am a bucket man...

Not sure what you mean by that Reminder....

I know what you mean. I dated a guy like that. I also dated a guy that was large in the girth way. that's worse. unless you are planning on being with him forever, or you have tons of money to get some plastic v-jay surgery... I wouldn't suggest keeping him around long (if its wide, I mean). lol. Not to mention having to go to the Gyno to literally be glued back together. Lmao. So for all the woman that say they want a "BIG ONE" be careful what you wish for. lmao! Finding a condom for a guy like that is a nightmare too.... FYI- As far as I know, they only make the Magnum XL as the biggest you can get... but they are all pretty much the same size around- I always felt like I was gonna hurt the poor guy! O

This is normal. My guy has a big one, too, and it took several months for me to adjust. Plus, he has piercings in that area, so it was change indeed. I was pretty sore at first...sometimes I would bleed. But, now everything goes really smooth.

It sounds like it may just be a bit too long for your body-type, and when it hits the cervix, it's called 'bottoming out". You can control things betterif you are on top, or if you are in Missionary, push back on his shoulders if he is going in too far...but watch-out with doggy-style; it rly hurts to get your cervix banged in that position, as it goes in the deepest~

my husband is about 10 and 1/2 inches. if he doesn't go in at the right angle or if you are not lubricated enough and ready it can hurt a lot you can feel pressure soreness or tenderness in your groin or low abdomen area not to mention in your vagina.some times they can hit your cervix or tilt your uterus if they are not careful and if they are doing deep penetration .You may need to use a lubricant other than the one that you naturally provide especially if you are not use to a man his size. And word of advice don't use a douche before sex it can tighten your muscles down there and make you drier than you want to be. I know a lot of women like the clean and fresh feeling but it can make sex more painful for some women. If you insist on douching douche after sex ok . Oh some thing else during foreplay have your man use his fingers on you before he enters you or use a dildo or vibrator to get you open and ready for him so that your muscles don't tightened up when you feel his large penis approaching because that will happen if you don't relax and if you don't relax it will hurt. And try being on top first when you can control how much and how fast and how deep he enters you until you can both agree on a tempo that is pleasing for both of you before you try another position.