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Jroj 10/07/2020

I just wanted feedback and maybe Ideas of 3somes. When I was younger I wanted to have a 3some. Basically me and 2 other women. So my wife has been talking about wanting to try it out. Only thing she is worried about is how would it effect us and she would want to do it but wjth someone we would not have to see again after we do it. Any opinions, tips or suggestions?

Arielg 10/07/2020

I'll just say I have always wanted to have one with my husband and another man but he would never go for that. Personally never had the opportunity but I think it's ok as long as you use protection

Jroj 10/07/2020

Thank you @arielg . Your right about the protection. I have a question do you talk about your 3some fantasy with your husband?

Arielg 10/07/2020

He wants two girls and I want to guys. I'm not really into women so we can't agree on that. Lol

Arielg 10/07/2020

Are u single or married. Do you have any prospects.

Jroj 10/07/2020

I am married and no projects for now . She just wants to be with a girl and have the experience

koolman 10/15/2020

Rent a call girl.

Broken_Bridges72 11/01/2020

Just make sure your marriage is solid. Why dont you try both situations separately? This then gives you both the fantasy.

OIP78 12/19/2020

Man you’re lucky. Hope you realize that don’t you?
Not many guys have this chance. Go for it but let your wife to lead the situation. Make her comfortable and feel safe in all game.
Wish you the best man . Wish I could have the same chance as you,
I love 3some and 4some.

lonewolf72 01/03/2021

skip the 3-some and have a 4-some, that way you both have either two woman or two men all at the same time. And if your are both bi then all the better.

MIIDGAAP 01/03/2021

I would recommend an adult hook up site. Fling or Adult Friend Finder? But as another mentioned, be cause, use protection, but also maybe start slow and get to know them to see if they have any other diseases. Bc even if you use protection on your dingy, and you give the other gal oral, you could still catch something.

FarmMom 01/04/2021

I have had good threesomes and not so good threesomes. You have to connect well with the people you are involved with.

Jroj 01/04/2021

thanks everyone trying to work something out and thanks farmmom. that makes sense especially because you want it to work and enjoy it

MrRalf 01/15/2021

Having been though this a few times, my advice is-- you have to discuss everything with your partner beforehand, set whatever boundaries (or lack thereof) and be 100% certain that you are ok with all of it.

Be as open and honest as possible before going for it. You never want to cross a line in the moment.

As long as you do that, then more power to you! Go to town and have some fun.

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