I wouldn't say it was just *you*....it was a combination of threads on the same day...

Like I said in a thread yesterday...unless a thread is directly address to me, I do try not to take offense to it...that does not mean I choose to answer every thread...

that being said...things to do with underage sex, or animals...tends to push the line JUST a tad...

As far as im concerned, post what u want but it doesnt mean anybody needs to read it or reply to it either. Alot of those kinda threads i just pass up.

JMO
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Cathy

Thank you for your opinion kids.

I will take that into consideration when I consider my next post.

If I post again that is. I will wait and see what the others here reply.

Maybe this is not a group that really wants to discuss deep issues about sex. Just have fun and fantasize.

No, this group can be just as serious as it is fun :) Matter of fact, that's why it's the best group. We take things seriously while retaining a sense of humor, which is a BIG reason that i don't go on other boards on DS as often. They're full of people that NEED to get laid and have a good laugh! lol

Thought you may have felt somewhat distressed at some of the comment. Not your fault Brent and your intentions were noble.

Plain and simple, Rock Spiders never apologise to their victims, show no remorse, feel they have committed no crime and will continue their predatory behaviour.

Topics that were listed evoke strong views and emotions from people.

My major concern is they can have a 'Triggering' effect on some fragile folke.

Being selfish here, but HS is my fun place to relax and laugh. Other forum groups cater for these topics better.

personally i think the people on here are very open and honest and what is so great about this group is that we all are so different but we are also open minded and about 95 % of the time we listen to eachother and respect what eachother says. but since we all are so dif there will be times when someone wants to talk about something that others might not respond positively to...the way i see it is yes, u can post whatever u like but be prepared for any time of feedback regardless if it is positive or negative. there are some topics on here that are VERY touchy such as rape, molestation, beastiality, and pedohilia. U should know especially since u were in law enforcement how touchy these things can be and pls do not be offended by others feedback bc if u didnt want to know the opinions then u wouldnt of posted the thread. dont be afraid to post anything but def be prepared for the the comebacks bc trust me u will get them and it might not be what ur looking for

I have been part of this group for a long time. I come and go. I have watched people eat people alive here.. Literally.
You can't always speak your mind here. Very judgemental this board can be. I'm sure you can see that. People say they are not but they are. I have lots of great friends from here. There are some true geniune people on this board. But I'm careful to not express my deepest thoughts cause I just don't have the energy to get into a stupid fight with some loser over the internet. That doesn't even know me or anything about me except for what they go fishing for on my profile. So I'm sure you can see what you can post and what you probably shouldn't. You know in general people can be nasty to each other. Looking for support or not. JMO.

Try this link if you really want to dislike someone:



http://www.popularprick.com/

We are not here for your experiment to see how people will react. I have no remorse for any sex offender.

Ok, since I put the Please thread up I suppose I should speak my peace. I am willing to talk and debate and discuss anything, the more variety the better. I believe the more we talk and discuss things that we are actively trying to do something about it.
I am a main memeber in this board, I don't really contribute a lot to many of the other groups I am in, so I kind of like something a bit different now and again.
You know all the banter is great fun on here..like slipping in showers ect, and it is real fun. But sometimes I like to get real and have something of substance. Like I said to someone recently, if sex was all fun then how come the world is fucked up sexually. I believe the only way we can do good is by airing certain subjects.

And now saying all that..I have read peoples profiles on here and I can understand why you don't want to partake in certain discussions but maybe we should use a code word like in other groups..like...TRIGGER..and some of us will know that it is something that they may not like and stay away from......I mean to us all there are certain things we find that are unhealthy to talk about here in HS. I think it all comes down to personal opinion but I won't tell someone what they can discuss on an open adult forum. Like me, I find talking about anal sex distasteful and offenceive, but I won't stop others talking about it.
Some times I get really pissed off when it all becomes very lesbian around here and I feel we are pandering to male fantasies....but I don't stop or try to put down what is happening ...unless someone bitchs about other things we are trying to discuss.
I wouldn't like to see anybody here hurt, I know many have been hurt by sexual acts in the past and don't want to relive them on here, but just because we don't talk about it does not mean that it will all go away in real life.
I also think that everyone on here has value and insight and something positive to give this group and the more the better in all ways and that is why certain people gravitate here.
There are times I have felt offended on here by things that have been said, but if it affects me, I need to look at why and know that it is my problem.......
If we are old enough to have sex and talk about it for me really anything goes Brent, and I will always give an honest opinion, I wear my feelings on my sleeve so be prepared for some fiery comments some times from me...lol.....

In my honest opinion...

we ALL have been guilty of posting threads at one time or another that were either off topic, or possibly struck a nerve with some members of the group.

My advice to that, if you see a thread that you don't want to read, simply don't read it.

I don't think it's up to us to police what people are and aren't allowed to say. And we certainly should alienate someone simply because we don't agree with their views.

It's not that difficult people...I saw a thread entitled "Pedophilia" and another one entitled "Beastiality" and guess what...i KNEW that I didn't want anything to do with them, I didn't even open them or read what anyone had to say.

It's that simple.

Yes, I was a sexual abuse victim. Pedophilia is a VERY sensitive subject for me...so I just had a feeling that whatever was in that thread would not be good for my psyche, so i didn't look at it.

Thats the beauty of us communicating online. If you don't want to read something, just don't. No sense in causing a huge drama over it.

And, I know we have several members here from overseas...but the majority of us are American's, and our country was founded on freedom...freedom of speech being one of the most important ones in my book. So, let people post whatever they want, and just drop it already.

correction

*Shouldn't alienate*