Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
(sigh)......depressed today for some reason....
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
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I was recently separated from my wife of 33 years and it's complicated. Anyway I rented a room about 15 minutes away and I see my kids about once a week. I see the people who own the house I live in once in a while but other than that I stay in my room where I do my cooking, wash dishes in the shower, read, color, and sleep. I get out at least once a day. I grocery shop and I attend 2 meetings...
Good to see you, Bob!
Pardon me for pointing this out, but if you want to know why you are depressed it's probably because you are having sex with the X! You KNOW there is no future in this. She is using you -- plain and simple. And you also know that this drama with her b/f is a big game of push-pull. I'd bet that within a week, he's going to be back in the picture and she's going to give you the brush-off AGAIN. Toxic relationships lead to major depression, my friend. STOP THIS INSANITY NOW! Just my two cents.
Step away from the X Bob...a few minutes of pleasure with her is causing you this depression - Not worth it in the long run - she will squash you like a bug when someone else comes along. She is too self absorbed to have any feelings for you. what she did to you over the past year shows that..IF I were in your position, I would remain sexless for eternity before giving her an ounce of pleasure.
You have to balance out if this is just for convenience or you think you will get back together...It's not healthy - She's not healthy, but you know that already. She's left you one step away from being homeless - taken everything from you...are you okay with that?
She seems very controlling - as of now, she is in charge of your entire living situation and your future - take back control of yourself.
I hope you are practicing safe sex with her, knowing the boyfriends past.
I wish you much luck.....