Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Hi all! I'm coming back to DS after about 2 years gone, I was here awhile back when going through my separation and divorce. Coming back to make some connections moving on with my life.
So today I'm seeking some advice about my personal erotic life. I've been divorced for about 2 years now. I haven't really resumed dating, haven't really met someone I felt i connected with, plus I dont have a lot of time to meet people anyways. So I meet my own needs, so to speak, and this is generally fine with me.
Lately, I have had the desire to find a little help, in the way of erotic materials. To be blunt, I need suggestions for either tasteful porn sites or tasteful erotic sites. I dont want to Google porn and expect to get what I'm looking for. So I thought maybe someone here would have some suggestions. I'm not looking for anything raunchy, or that I need to pay for, or that will leave viruses on my computer. Just something sexy to help get me turned on, maybe even some sort of sensual meditation, if such a thing exists?
I have no shame in exploring my sexuality, yet I find a lot of the most readily available stuff to be just far too vulgar, or more of the issue is I just dont know where to look for something good. Hetero couples, no gay/lesbian (not that there's anything wrong with that, it just doesnt turn me on personally). or, if there's such a thing as guided masturbation for women? IDK, anyone with suggestions please.
So today I'm seeking some advice about my personal erotic life. I've been divorced for about 2 years now. I haven't really resumed dating, haven't really met someone I felt i connected with, plus I dont have a lot of time to meet people anyways. So I meet my own needs, so to speak, and this is generally fine with me.
Lately, I have had the desire to find a little help, in the way of erotic materials. To be blunt, I need suggestions for either tasteful porn sites or tasteful erotic sites. I dont want to Google porn and expect to get what I'm looking for. So I thought maybe someone here would have some suggestions. I'm not looking for anything raunchy, or that I need to pay for, or that will leave viruses on my computer. Just something sexy to help get me turned on, maybe even some sort of sensual meditation, if such a thing exists?
I have no shame in exploring my sexuality, yet I find a lot of the most readily available stuff to be just far too vulgar, or more of the issue is I just dont know where to look for something good. Hetero couples, no gay/lesbian (not that there's anything wrong with that, it just doesnt turn me on personally). or, if there's such a thing as guided masturbation for women? IDK, anyone with suggestions please.
In all honesty I don't believe tasteful porn exists!
Lol!
He watched Japanese porn , he said all the chrotches were blacked out I think he said the lady's breasts were too.lol
Stuff like that they could show on daytime tv here.lol
not the strippin fuggin kind ,no plot .
a few women I talked to thinks it's funny how in porn every guy looks like he was born with a boner, never a softy that needs pumping up.lol & they have a 10 incher + .
a lot of those 10 inchers are actualy prosthetics, fake penis' added on to the guys naturaly born on one to give him a few more inches in length & girth..lol.
I saw this info on a documentary & also a few porn bloopers where the add on prosthetic penis fell off, it looked natural before it fell off.lol